hi there, my ex gf who is a good friend now is preety upset cos her mum and step dad are on the verge of spilliting. She has been through this before when her mum and dad split. what should i do? do you think i should send some flowers to her house to her ?
2007-03-27 01:49:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes. That would be nice of you.
2007-03-27 01:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by K~E~G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any kind gesture towards her is fantastic . Just showing someone that you are thinking about them and that you care. Can make a huge diffrence to how they cope. Flowers a phonecall or even take her out for a drink! She will value your friendship more and be more willing to help you if the situation was reversed.
2007-03-27 01:58:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sending anything is not appropriate in this situation, and sending flowers -god forbid- is the "wrongest" thing to do.
You know, call her, tell her that you know how she must be feeling and offer her to listen if she needs a friend ---- I bed you a month's salary as a wager she will be over the moon and appreciated it 1000 times more than any gift - women tick that way.
2007-03-27 01:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Eugene 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should send her some nice flowers. Just don't sign the card with the word love.
2007-03-27 02:11:48 · answer #4 · answered by Doreen A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont think that these circumstances warrent flowers, just let her know that you are there for her if and when she wants to talk or be with you. Just knowing someone is available for support will be all the love she needs
2007-03-27 01:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by romerelax 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say definitely "yes". She needs to know how good a friend you truly are. A friend is someone who is there through the bad times as well as the good. She will remember this!
2007-03-27 01:56:18 · answer #6 · answered by Sam h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes send her some flowers, let her know your there as a friend
2007-03-27 01:56:13 · answer #7 · answered by Bruce P 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this sounds simple but just send her a text saying your there for her if she ever needs anyone to talk to. This will mean alot to her because then she knows thats shes got someone to turn to. Hope shes ok xx
2007-03-27 01:54:20 · answer #8 · answered by chaos4eternity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her for when she needs a friend to talk to, or call her from time to time to see how she's doing. I would appreciate that if I were going through a similar situation.
2007-03-27 01:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by Strawberry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two are still on pretty good terms then sending her a card or flowers would be a nice gesture or maybe just a phone call to see if she needs someone to talk to .....good luck
2007-03-27 10:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by att_i_tude2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, definitely call her or take her out to lunch or something like that. just hang out and be there for her, all she really needs now is a shoulder. gifts and stuff like that are for couples, and shes your ex. she might think that youre trying to get back with her. give her support as a friend.
2007-03-27 01:56:56 · answer #11 · answered by .life.love&happiness. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋