My ex-bf did not stop communicating with me thru e-mail. We've been apart from each other for 3 years now since he lives faraway from me. There was a point that I didn't respond for about 5 months, but he just kept in touch. I also once sent him a goodbye message, letting him go. But, he implied he still wants connection, and wants to see me again.
I just wonder what this man could be up to? And I wonder if he loves me or not, since he didn't tell me that. And i'm afraid to ask.. What do you think?
I think your answer will help me decide whether to see him again or not. Help!
2007-03-27 01:47:16 · 10 answers · asked by pesticide 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How long were you with him and how serious was the relationship? Did one of you move away and why did you break up? It sounds like you made a deep impression in his life for him to keep communicating and maybe you should see him to find out what is going on in his mind. But please think it over throughly before you do. Think about the reasons for the breakup and weigh it all out. I hate to say it but he could also have been stringing you along to keep you from moving on just incase other relationships do not work out and you would be there to fall back on. I had a relationship like that and I finally told him that I would not accept it anymore to leave me alone. I can not possibly know what this guy is thinking or what kind of relationship you had or why you broke up in the first place but all I am saying really think it through before you decide whether or not to see him again. Good luck.
2007-03-27 01:57:55 · answer #1 · answered by susie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly how you feel lady, I have a relationship that is totally impossible because of my age and the distance thing. If I were you I would talk to him and be very honest and ask him if he thinks that he loves you. Baby, he may not know what he is feeling, but you have to help him sort it all out for him and yourself. Don't be afraid, just be gentle and firm with him. He must feel something or he would have been gone by now, or else he does not have much of a way with women. Find out dear, you owe it to yourself, Go for it now. G
2007-03-27 02:15:03 · answer #2 · answered by hog rock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you get your hopes up and make your self crazy I would ask him why is looking to see you after all this time. You can then decide based on the answer. At least you will know what you are walking into rather then hearing he is getting married or something like that. Good Luck.
2007-03-27 01:53:08 · answer #3 · answered by Kat G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing I don't understand
You said he was your boyfriend. Then how come he didn't say that if he loves you or not?
However,
I think it depends on your feelings about him. If you love him then ask him about his love. If not then send another goodbye message and don't ever answer hid mails again. And if you can't do that then just try to be friends.
2007-03-27 02:23:46 · answer #4 · answered by Sky Guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 01:11:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to stay in touch with you. I think you touched his heart. Just ask him straight up why he wants to see you again....Have you moved on? Are you dating? If so, let him know this information and see what his response to that is....if he changes his mind about wanting to see you again, then I think it is safe to assume he wanted to rekindle the romance.
2007-03-27 01:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
theres nothing wrong with seeing each other again. but dont think just by hanging out ur going to get back together in a snap! meet up and catch up on whats been going on with each other... just see how it goes but dont jump to conclusions. if u dont you might regret it and always live with the what if i....
2007-03-27 01:51:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your 100% sure that he's geniune then go for it, but make sure that you know him and that you have spoke to him otherwise there can be serious problems.
2007-03-27 01:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by Evertongrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
meet him, sort it once and for all, then if you dont think he wants a relationship.......change your email address, and move on.
2007-03-27 01:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by natc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i can DEFINETY tell he still has some major feelings for you.
2007-03-27 01:51:03 · answer #10 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋