i met this guy at a dance and we hooked up and he just asked me out and he said he really wanted to see me again and then i said i couldnt go out with him for a week cause i would be away at my relatives house. he then said i understand and then said he had to go(we were talking on msn) :( i feel really bad and i feel as though he suddenly hates me. i asked him if he was annoyed with me and he said nah uve been cool, u worry too much. wat his up with him
2007-03-27 01:17:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're making a mountain out of a molehill. There is nothing worry about, he just had to leave the computer. Don't assume that everything that happens is because of you, it's not, and you'll drive yourself crazy with worry if you keep thinking that way.
Don't believe anything without proof, especially if it's a negative asumption about yourself. Just imagine if the situation was turned around - would you suddenly hate him because he had to stay at a relative's house for a week?
2007-03-27 01:21:22 · answer #1 · answered by Velouria 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is annoyed and been funny with you, then he is very immature. He also sounds really pathetic To him it's his way or the high way. And he's only just met you as well! If he acts like taht again, say somehing along the lines of "Believe it or not, I do have a life outside of you". Ifhe can't take something like that after he's the one been the idiot, forget about him, move on....
Or maybe, he's not annoyed. Maybe you took it the wrong way. After all you were on msn, so you weren't speaking. When things are writen down it's easy to mistake things as you don't know how they mean. It's not like speaking in person where you can tell things by the tone of their voice and body language. Maybe he was a little sad because he really wanted to see you and he was a bit thrown back because he had to wait longer than expected.
Talk to him in person and im sure you'll find out how he's feeling.
Hope this helps :)
2007-03-27 08:29:32 · answer #2 · answered by smr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both hit it off well, just be patient. If its meant to be he will come around. Sometimes guys have a hidden agendy, to get you in bed. So if that's all he was after, its good if he doesn't contact you again. It is way too early to really read anything into it. If he likes you he will wait on you. Some guys are just jerks and those are the ones you don't need. Give it a little while. There is someone out there for everyone. It sometimes takes a while to find them. My opinion, if he really liked you he wouldn't have ended the conversation that early and would have continued to chat. He may have also thought you were brushing him off. Guys are so sensitive. He may have took it all wrong. But you don't need a guy you will have to continually have to hold his hand either.
2007-03-27 08:27:04 · answer #3 · answered by jle_dje 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he your first boyfriend or something? Yeah, obviously he's going to be upset that you guys can't hang out for a week, but he's not annoyed at you. If he didn't think you guys should be together, you'd be broken up already.
Stop being clingy and make sure to call him over your break. I hope this helps.
nicole
2007-03-27 08:20:28 · answer #4 · answered by nicole 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that he's not upset or annoyed with you at all. all i see is a steady relationship coming on. he does not hate you. he understood that you already had plans to be away at your relatives house. so don't worry about it and just be happy that he likes and loves you for what you are. just keep up the steady relationship and good things will come out of it.
2007-03-27 08:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by princesstocrown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who CARES! Why do you care what some skitzo things about you. Maybe he's mentally unbalanced.
You are young, so off course you want to date and find a guy. So here is along a little wisdom my mother told me about Men:
!Turn them upside down and they all look alike!
PS, I've been happily married for 30 years. Go figure.
2007-03-27 08:21:37 · answer #6 · answered by Fancy That 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're being paranoid. He's given you no reason to believe he's mad at you, and why would he be anyway? You said you'd go out with him, just not until you were back in town. Try to relax a little and hopefully he'll call you or IM you before you know it.
2007-03-27 08:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by crabbyone 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're making something out of nothing. Basically you are worrying about how he feels and he understands why you can't see him. Just let it go and contact him when you get back.
2007-03-27 08:20:55 · answer #8 · answered by freyja5683 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he seriously had 2 go. hes fine. me and my boyfriend can only see each other on saturday's, but we talk everyday. and there was 1 part where it was 3 weeks not seeing him but seeing him after that made it all more worth while
2007-03-27 08:20:44 · answer #9 · answered by lillizzybug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude he understands you do worry too much. wow
2007-03-27 08:19:31 · answer #10 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋