and don't know how to deal with it. There is a guy I grew up with we have had contact with each other in the last year. I noticed that he doesn't treat me the same it is like he likes me. Some people that I know has told the way he looks at me is more like he wants to be more than friends with me. When he is around me he acts like he wants to tell me something but he doesn't. I have had sent him letters and cards he would come see me on the job but I haven't seen lately. There are times I cann't get him off my mind and it almost drives me crazy. I found out that about 2 weeks ago he came looking for me. I don't know if he has a girlfriend, he hasn't called me, but he does show up on my job every so often ( I work in a store)
I wonder is God tring to tell me that I should deal with more or what, when I want to leave the sitation alone, I find he has come looking for me. I wonder is God working on him the same as me. I was told if someone on your mind means they are thinking of you.
2007-03-27 01:15:21 · 6 answers · asked by sinababy25 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hello, from your question it communicates that you have some feelings for this person. Ask him straight out instead of assuming anything. Assuming can set a person up for failure.
Yes it is true, may be God is working on both your hearts, God will allow certain things to repeat itself until the lesson is learned. Maybe you see him often and God is trying to prompt you to say something.... Ask him where he stands and this will be good for you too.....in that you guys will both be on the same page.
Sometimes some people avoid confrontation, though difficult attimes it's the best way to go. Let him know after he responds that you care if that is the case.
Good luck, and I hope things work out
2007-03-27 01:29:51 · answer #1 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that God will take care of this situation in His own time & way. Not taking away from His taking care if this, I would like to add, if you know each other this well, I don't see anything wrong in having a dinner date, even if it is at your request, maybe as a 'Dutch Dinner', each paying for their own, and asking him how he feels about you, in a non-confrontational way, maybe telling him how you are feeling.This should help you get an understanding on how the relationship is going. Hope this works out for you..JoyG
2007-03-27 01:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by Joy G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for me God puts you in situations, opens up opportunities, the ultimate matchmaker in the universe but he doesn't order people around coz of free will (reminds me of bruce almighty). The ball is in your court now, be open to the possibility but don't over-analyze or be anxious abt it. Let things fall into place.
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2007-03-27 01:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow well ummmm give it a try you never know how happy you both can really be on the long run. So go for it!
2007-03-27 01:25:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you like him more than your willing to admit. Maybe you should ask him out and give it a try.
2007-03-27 01:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
uuhhh...dont know about the whole god thing but it sounds to me like he just doesnt have the guts to actually come up to you and ask you out...
2007-03-27 01:21:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋