2007-03-27 01:11:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You buzz off. You missed your opportunity and now it's his turn to stall you. You can't be mean to them and expect them to be all giddy back at you. You deserve what you got. I hope this helps
nicole
2007-03-27 01:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by nicole 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The quote here might help: When you out getting hot, dont think im not."
Some men are weird creatures, who enjoy hurting those closet to t hem.So when he says buzz off, do you cry? No. Do you break down and beg for him to come back? No. Do you rip up his clothes and destroy his apartment? No (well maaaaybe). T
he key here is, no matter how hurt you are inside, you smile through gritted teeth. Men like the idea that you were so into them that when they hurt you, it broke you down. So what you do is (a) get you own back and (b) show him you dont have a care in the world. The first you do by retail therapy. Go out and buy yourslef something nice gorgeous and flirty, you might not be going out to get a man, but he will think you are and thats what really counts. Be evasive, he wants to talk to you, 'No im busy' is great. Now, this reallly hurts at first because you want nothing more then to run to him, but remember we are thinking long term effects here. You being busy means that you have more to life then him. What he did to you was sad, yes, but your saying 'ill get over it'.
Next, go out with your friends more and do things that really interest you. Smile when you talk to him, look at him directly. Enquire about his life and what he is getting up. The guy wont know what hit him after all werent you supposed to be miserable and sad?
The point of all of this game playing is first of all pride and second of all, he may very well want to get back with you. When he sees that you have survived, he will think of all the times you had together, the things you did for him and be scared that you may not want him anymore. But if you were sad and upset, he would know that youd take him back at anytime and this is a big 'no no', because when you take him back he may do the same thing again.
Remember, women are strong too, so dont let this guy think otherwise even for a minute. I hope this helps.
2007-03-27 08:27:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then u do as he asks and "buzz off", stop wasting ur time on him, find someone else and rub it in his face. Make sure he knows what he missed out on.
2007-03-27 08:14:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kristy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd tell I buzzed him off years ago. What? He still doesn't understand that????
2007-03-27 08:13:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect what he say's and leave him alone. At the end of the day you've been telling him no for years and now it' his turn. People always want what they can't have.
2007-03-27 08:14:30 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Sel 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hop on Pop!
2007-03-27 08:14:20 · answer #6 · answered by sapphire_velvet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you prabably made him wait too long and he prabably really liked you enough to wait for so long so he prabably is hurt or lossed interest or both.
2007-03-27 08:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by Tash 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not women.. but u waited too too long... and too late now..
2007-03-27 08:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll kick his b****.
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2007-03-27 08:13:41 · answer #9 · answered by Leilyn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋