just in case ur wonderin im in the 7th grade.but the problem is there is this guy who ive been crushin on 4 a long time,and he finally asked me out!but yesterday his friend called me and told me that he's just going out with me becuz sum1 told him if he went out with me i would have sex with him.im not gonin to have sex with him becuz i know all the bad things that can happen from that but i was wondering if i should stay with him and maybe he would start to like me 4 me or kIck hIs a** 2 the curb???what should i do??!!
2007-03-27 00:59:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should make sure that is all he wants and then if it is true and you know that you don't want to have sex(hopefully you won't want to like you said) then tell him straight up that you will not do it with him. If he accepts that and still wants to go out with you then go out with him ,but if you think he will push you into having sex watch out. So, basically you should find out and then from their on talk to him about it then decide what you feel like doin but if you don't want to have sex kick him to the curb.
GOOD LUCK
2007-03-27 01:15:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well did you ever think of the possibility that his friend likes you? and is just saying that stuff so that you will break up? or it might be true and in that case you should leave him. But you need to talk to him before you make your decision, find out the truth from him. (i really think you should not have sex with him. just wait for a couple of years)
2007-03-27 08:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by AnnaDaAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about what your friend said and explain to him that you don't like the thought that he would possilbly do that. Then since your not interested in any contact like he wants let him know and tell him that you are not into any of that stuff.
2007-03-27 08:11:32 · answer #3 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick him to the curb. You're so young, and he's not mature enough to come around yet.
2007-03-27 08:05:35 · answer #4 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay with him and play himn just as he wanted to play me. If he likes you in the process then thats great if you would still have feelings for him. You go girl and don't do IT!
2007-03-27 08:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him from the get-go there will be no sex in this relationship and if you find out that he lies and says that there is, you will kick his ***.
2007-03-27 08:03:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur 2 young 2 like any thing but school and tell ur mom
2007-03-27 08:04:14 · answer #7 · answered by kk so fly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you are too young for sex and you need time,
maybe who told you that is jst trying to mess with you around
and maybe he is rite
try to be honest with him and let him knw every thing
2007-03-27 08:14:02 · answer #8 · answered by mall123mall 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His friends said it, not him. Until it comes from his mouth, don't believe it. Talk to him about it.
2007-03-27 08:08:39 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah27 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just kick his as**.. if he doesnt care about you now.. why will he later?
2007-03-27 08:05:37 · answer #10 · answered by nap11t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋