ok i broke up with him like months ago but he still calls me and even tries to come over,and he hadn't called me in like a week but he seen my sister and told her to tell me he waz commin over this weekend, and when ever im in a relationship he comes on to me even stronger and ends up breaking every relationship i have had after him up because the guys find out and think that i cme on to him to (not true) and i told him numerous times that i just wanna be friends and he agrees but acts differently,and should i let him come over,and yes at one point we were in love but i just dont get the mixed signals HELP!
2007-03-27 00:58:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i think that he still loves u but he just dun want u 2 know fo a while, n i guess that he's jealous wid da boys that u'r in relationship in (if u get what i mean), neway i think u need 2 find out more what's he into, i think that he wants 2 get back 2gether wid u but he's shy or probably he wants 2 find out the rite time 2 say it
2007-03-27 01:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by institutionalized 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks to me, like he can't understand the word No! if you think it won't work out tell him, make sure you get it straight to him that there will never be more then what is between the both of you now. If he still bugs you, maybe you should set him up with someone, that might work. But make sure you truly do no have feelings for him, because if you do, then letting him have a new girlfriend will seriously hurt you.
hope that helps and good luck.
2007-03-27 01:05:33 · answer #2 · answered by AnnaDaAngel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the world of relationships, my dear. Unfortunately, there are many people out there (male AND female) that behave in this manner. It's sort of a "if I can't have you, no one will have you" train of thought. They are miserable so they are going to make you miserable too. And if they spend all of their time with you, then you don't have that extra time to spend with anyone else, therefore neither of you can move on. Mixed signals? Definately, because he probably doesn't want you back, he just doesn't want anyone else having you either.
I hope everything works out for you honey.
All the best -
2007-03-27 01:05:59 · answer #3 · answered by jcoberly1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not the one sending mixed signals, you are. Why are you continuing to allow him to invade your life? If you are over him, then for his sake alone you need to let him go for good, even as a friend for now. He's not ready to let go and you aren't helping by feeding him attention for his actions. Just ignore him right now.
2007-03-27 01:04:08 · answer #4 · answered by Aphrodite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't take the hint that you have moved on and just want to be friends well you might have to get the cops or your parents involved. I had a crazy ex that was just plain insane for me and I had to get the cops involved in order to get him to **** off!!
2007-03-27 01:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes let him come over, I dont think you can say no! Just let him come and you guys need to really talk okay.
2007-03-27 01:03:17 · answer #6 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, cut your ties... you women need to learn that you can't be friends with your ex's, that is the worst to try and be friends with them. It tear's a guy up inside. just tell him you can't be friends and you want him to leave you alone.
2007-03-27 01:02:55 · answer #7 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋