ive known this girl for 8 years and ive fallen in love with her but ive also fallen in love with her friend as well and i dont know which girl i want to be with! can anyone help?!
2007-03-27 00:35:13 · 28 answers · asked by dazcorkhill 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eventually you will have to choose...
2007-03-27 00:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Ands 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's very impossible to fall in love with 2 people at the same time. You r just infatuated with one of them or both. However do u realise how much hate and anger you will cause between the two friends. How would you feel if your friend fell in love with your girlfriend. If you havent dated either it's fine then you can choose one but definitely not both. All it does is to allienate yourself from both girls and who loses their friendship? YOU. Think seriously before you take your next step.
2007-03-27 07:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by okamgomezulu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is very much possible to fall in love with two people at the same time. Often this is harder than falling in love with just one person.
been in that situation before and it does really hurt, but you have to choose, sometimes you need choose with your head, as sometimes choosing with your heart can put you into a situation that will hurt so many people involved, as it depends on the situation that you are both in and whether other people are involved like children, loosing a friend????
sometimes we all have to make decisions we do not want to make, but then sometimes its better that minimum people hurt is for the best!
Good luck, don't sit on it too long, as it you need to make your choice and move on, the hurt will go away!
2007-03-27 07:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
as the to girls if they want to b with you and if they oth say yea then fiirst go with the one youve knon the longest and see if that works and if not try the other girl. another thing you need to know is women can b very emotional so it kinda depends on the kind of guy u r and who fits best 4 u well good luck
2007-03-27 07:50:12 · answer #4 · answered by joshua c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the last thing you want is to confuse lust with love. Choose one you truelly love from the heart. Every lady want s to be loved by just one guy who is all for them. Love is faithful and will not pervert itself -so you shouldn't either. Be the guy who is different don't be a dog. Make a decision and make it quick and then stay focussed!
2007-03-27 07:43:57 · answer #5 · answered by His Majesty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you can't "be in love" with two girls at the same time..........
decide, make up your mind which one you "love" more and stick with it or you could always become of of those Arab type religious blokes and be in "love" with as many as you like............and marry them all. No really you must sort this out before people get hurt, all the best : )
2007-03-27 07:43:42 · answer #6 · answered by KA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with the one that you love the most make a list off the things that u like about each girl n the 1 with the most reason is the one lol
2007-03-27 07:39:50 · answer #7 · answered by lotti brockie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, i use to be in love with 5 women all at the same time. But than again im a very loving person. So two? Sure why not.
2007-03-27 07:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by The SOurcE 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No one can be in love with 2 ppl at the same time... either you really love one of them and are infactuated with the other.
Probably the infactuation is so strong you're mistaking it for love.
Hey don't sweat...time will tell...just don't go and do something stupid that will jeopardise their friendship with each other and with you.
Cheers!
2007-03-27 07:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by AngelDee 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its possible to love , one two three or more girls but you must decide who you are IN love with, two different kinds of love. love my children, family and some of my friends but im IN love with my husband. Only you can know that.
2007-03-27 07:52:04 · answer #10 · answered by mamgu....... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Just think how the women will feel if they found out about you being in love with them both, plus they are friends you need to think seroiusly think hard about who you feel more passionate about!! Chay x
2007-03-27 07:41:39 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋