I had asked him out, he said yes and got all blushy smiley faced BUT I got busy with moving, and I started a big career change - so I didn't get back to him until months later.
Then I see him again and he's not as happy to see me as he's been in the past. I don't feel that "vibe" we had going before, and when I say, "Hey, let's set up that date" He flat out tells me he's in a relationship and no longer open to dating others.
I feel like I got slapped in the face. Why was he so cold and rude?
2007-03-27 00:32:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
because you left him hanging. he's moved on....so should you.
2007-03-27 00:35:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You put him on the back burner when you got busy with other things, and instead of sitting there patiently waiting for you to find some time, he found someone else. He also told you honestly that he is now in a committed relationship and won't date on the side. Nothing about his behaviour is cold or rude. You just need to get over yourself.
2007-03-27 07:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably felt like you rejected him first. You didn't keep in touch and basically stood him up when you guys never went out. He probably went through a number of scenarios in his head, wondering why you had just dropped of the face of the earth. Sounds like he may have been more hurt than anticipated and is trying to move on.
2007-03-27 07:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was cold a rude because you got to busy for him and he was upset about that. And now he's moved on. I say let it go. Pleanty of other fishes in the sea.
2007-03-27 07:36:48 · answer #4 · answered by hmsmomof6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
should have taken that date before you started moving.. i dont think he was cold and rude.. you asked him out and when he said yes you never made the date, hes the one who prob felt the slap in the face..
2007-03-27 07:36:48 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He was expecting to hear from you. Maybe a day or 2 after you asked him. He feels hurt and dissapointed. You broke his heart....
He thinks you are cold and he feels like he got slapped in the face.
You messed up!!!!!!!
2007-03-27 07:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Monkey Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u bombed on him a couple months back. hes obvously not going to wait around for you. someone else came along while you were busy. unfortunetly now hes off the market so move on
2007-03-27 07:36:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because you got him interested then totally blew him off and dissapeared? you slapped him in the face first, sweetheart. I also find it a little shocking how inconsiderate you are, as to not have figure this out on your own. he's better off without you, and he knows it.
2007-03-27 07:37:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because in the mean time he found some one else.
he is in love with some one else.
do u need binoculars to see that.
he is honest , faithful and committed to that woman.
which is the mark of a real nice man.
you should move on.
2007-03-27 07:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by rose 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe its not you people do have lives or maybe like he told you he is in a relationship and still holds a grudge because you didn't take the annisiative and call him for that date....try to make things right
2007-03-27 07:39:13 · answer #10 · answered by shaenaz m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left the guy hanging! What if the tables had been turned? You'd understand.
2007-03-27 07:37:22 · answer #11 · answered by dude0795 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋