Is virginity an over rated issue?

Question

Is virginity a gift to someone you love or nowadays it has no value...cause people feel like IT NO BIG DEAL..but if you want some who is pure "DO YOU THINK ONE MUST BE VIRGIN UNTILL THE DAY SHE'S GETTIN MARRIED" and on the other hand the other person also must understand that and I think he would wait till that day

Answer 1

Virginity is the best Gift for your Future Husband!! It's something special!!

You can only give this to your lovely husband who loves very much!!!

What is the problem to wait until wedding???? Your husband can wait until wedding!!!!

Please don't trying to do mistakes with others guys!!! Most of guys push girls to have sex with them and finally girls cheated by them!!!

If your husband Loves you, he can wait you!!! It will not a pb for him!!!!

Have a nice dayyy,

Miss Liny

Answer 2

Ok lets remove the peer pressure and religious aspect away from this topic.

What do we have? A physical urge that manifests itself at a specified age. In early days guys/gals got married at young age. So by the time they hit 22-25, they already had kids! So the virginity part never really was a problem.

With growing career aims, people get married in their 30s. Some are not sure about a family but would like to live their life as partners. Isnt that their right?

This marriage itself is just a function. Whereas you enter into a marriage the moment you physically merge as man and woman. Its a pity if you sleep around with other people too, because then you are promiscous.

Virginity can be hyped as a "Gift" to the person you get married. But are you gonna search in the Matrimony columns with a line "Virgins only apply". Isnt it an undue pressure on yourself? Isnt it something you are denying yourself just because you want to "Gift" someone you will marry?

The best gift one can give their husband/wife is to live to the vows they take "Till death do us apart" and not run to the Family court for an early divorce and settlement. It doesnt matter how many flowers you smell before your find that ONE flower, but you have to stick that flower to your heart till either of you wither and fall.... That my friend is the best gift.

.:Fishie:.

Answer 3

I am not quite sure what you are trying ti ask me? But to me virginity is very Imporetat, I would not want my husband, to have been with like 10 other girls I would want to be the only one, ya know? I would wish that my husband would want the same for me. I think that people DO think that it is worth nothing but it is worth something, I am not sure what it is worth, Lol! I just know that the Bible says wait till you are married and then give yourselfe away, ya know?

Answer 4

I think it depends why you are saving your virginity. If its because you only want to have sex with the man or woman your going to spend the rest of your life with, then I respect that.

But if its because you believe in god, and the bible teaches yada yada yada. I am catholic. But honestly. If thats why your doing it, you better not use birth control throughout your entire marriage. Because it also says in the bible that having sex for any other purpose then reproduction is wrong. And the church believes that birth control messes with gods plan. So if your a virigin because its what god says, you shouldnt be using birthcontrol, or your a hypricrit. And judging anyone for not waiting for sex is wrong.

I dont think having sex with someone should be taken lightly. Regardless if virginity is present or not. But thats just me.

Answer 5

No!!! It's an under rated issue these days. Most of the people these days don't consider the values of their virginity any more. They feel their pleasures are more important. They don't think it's important to maintain their vriginity untill they find someone made for them.

All the best...

:-)

Answer 6

Following safety first tactic & maintain your virginity till marriage. SAFETY FIRST , ANYTHING ELSE LATER should be your standard motto.
Sex is not a taboo. If u keep busy in constructive activities, u wiil not feel urgency having sex & can very well wait till marriage. Of course don't delay marriage too much. When u feel , get married at the earliest without any reservation or fear b coz it has no better replacement at all from every point of view. Getting a good life partner of one's choice is not at all difficult. Girls MUST take extra care of maintaining their dignity & honour .

Answer 7

Even today in this corrupt and contaminated world some values remain. Yes, it is still a symbol of purity and it is sacred and holy. It is the best gift a girl can give her husband on the day of marriage, which he can cherish for a lifetime.

Answer 8

I think keeping your virginity until you're married is great. I think many heartaches would be avoided. If more people focused on the important during a dating relationship and not just the physical aspect of it, I think that there wouldn't be so many broken marriages.
I also don't think there would be any STD's if people saved themselves for their life partner.

Answer 9

Where I live, everyone is expected to be a virgin until the day he/she marries. Which is the case most of the time for girls and many times for boys, but not necessarily all the time.

Answer 10

TIMES HAVE CHANGED ... values that we had back when our grandparent were around are so different from today.
Societies values is one thing and peer pressure is another.
If you believe that there is one person for your life and you are prepared to save yourself for that person then what has anyone else opinion matter except your own.
As far as waiting for a virgin to come along.... you could be waiting a long time