Have you ever had an ex hurt you or mess you about and you decided to move on and either ran into them or they contacted you to tell that they want you back or tell you that they shouldnt have let you go?
It always happens to me and my friends! Any experiences and if it had happened DID YOU GO BACK TO THEM OR DID YOU SAY NO IT'S TOO LATE!!
2007-03-27 00:15:33 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I actually had that happen to me and it wasn't that long ago...I broke up with my ex last year in March and he screwed me in the head pretty good and hurt me a lot. It took me about a 8mths to get over the whole thing and I'm still not my old self. I really hate him for that!!!
Anyways, still we stayed in touch since we broke up, mostly my initiative, and then he suggested we meet up during one weekend and go out to dinner. I agreed and we met up. At dinner he starts telling me how he'd like to get back with me and all this stuff, he wanted to sleep over and I just kept thinking how glad I was that he was out of my life and we weren't dating anymore. The thing with us was that he cheated on me and I still stuck with him and the only reason why we broke up is that he moved to Boston and I stayed in DC. So when we met up it's been about 6 mths since I'd seen him last. And actually seeing him was the thing that made me realize that I was over him and that I wanted to move on. So, basically, I didn't take him back, I never would and I believe that if you break up with someone, that happened for a reason and you should move on. I think the ex is called an ex for a reason and it's never a good idea to take him/her back, no matter how much you still love him/her! Life is too short to have that kind of drama in it...
2007-03-27 00:31:40 · answer #1 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly it happened to me once, I did go back with him, this was years later, he had divorced, and we met again by chance, he wanted to go back, and I still had feelings for him, but it just was not the same....so its up to you if you want to give it a try, you never know, it might work or it may not. Not everybody has the same experience. Good Luck to you, but I would not go back with every boyfriend, this was a very special relationship, when we were young and single of course.
2007-03-27 00:25:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-15 09:54:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have had that done to me. my ex and i broke up b/c he had been cheating and trying to have an double life........ i left him alone after i got some sense. about 5 months had went by, then he found out i was starting a new relationship....... he said how he missed me and i was the love of his life. and for a second i thought about taking it slow and getting back with him........ then his girlfriend called a week later and asked what was going on ( the day after i told him i could not take him back)....... that's when i saw for myself he was never going to stop playing games..... i was glad i had told him no, b/c the cycle would have started all over again.
..................... moral... your ex is an ex for a reason ( keep it that way)
2007-03-27 00:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by jazzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are absolutely right. Why take someone back when you made it perfectly clear to them that it was their last chance and they still didn't want to commit to you?
It sounds like he just wants to be the one in control, and to do things on his terms only. Well its takes two people to have a relationship and you can't just do what he wants all the time because then you won't have a life anymore or be able to make any decisions.
2007-03-27 03:11:12 · answer #5 · answered by juniper 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there are SOOOOOOO many females in the world, like 3.4 billion. Why would I ever go back? There is always something new and better. Move on and throw out the fishing rod, plenty o fish in the sea.
2007-03-27 00:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by The SOurcE 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had it a couple of times, most significantly one of my ex's dumped his fiancee so that he could make a last ditched attempt to get me back. By then, I'd found out that he cheated on me during our time together so I agreed to meet and then stood him up. harsh, but he was a nasty piece of work when we were together and was a cheating b'stard. It makes for simple satisfaction and sweet revenge!! (His fiancee wouldn't take him back!)
2007-03-27 00:24:49 · answer #7 · answered by eat my try 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its just a little to late...... esp if they dont contact u within the 1st 2 months of a break up. after a year.. id hang out with them but i wouldnt go back out with them right away. id have to see if they changed. which in my cases THEY NEVER DO!
2007-03-27 00:21:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have and I told them to *&^k off when they wanted me back. It's the whole challenge thing to see if they still have you under their spell. Once you give in they will dump your ***. Forget the losers, they should have known what an awesome girl thay had when they had you..good luck:)
2007-03-27 00:24:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jade AvA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had an ex contact me once wanting to get back together. I pretended to not know who the hell he was.
2007-03-27 00:21:00 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋