2007-03-27 00:13:44 · 5 answers · asked by Kerry M 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
My 15 yo daughter had the same problem when she was about that age. I think the best advice I gave her is to talk about her friends with me or someone else that she trusts so she could get an outsiders view of the situation. This is something she still does to this day. She says it gives her good insight and allows her to get a different view. It also allows her to get her feelings of being "used" by her friend validated and suggestions on a way to avoid another situation like that or confront the problem in a positive way with out causing strife.
I also constantly gave her positive reinforcement to help her with her confidence, and self esteem. She is now a confident and self assured 15 yo young lady. (well as confident and self assured as a teenager can be) I believe she's on the right track to becoming an awesome individual and is becoming a leader of her friends because of her values and not allowing others to walk over her. The majority of her friends look up to her because of her positive attitude and positive attitude toward friendships.
2007-03-27 01:51:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is an extremely confusing undertaking, and you're being very compassionate on your attitude to it. yet at this ingredient, the lady is uncontrolled. Is the relatives having counselling? purely because of the fact they ought to be does no longer advise they are. seek advice from the college your daughter attends, and alert them to the situation. seek advice from the instructor. the lady might choose extra in intensity counselling than she is getting at present. dropping one's father may be very irritating, yet you're saying the lady had a vicious temper even earlier this happened, so this may be something better than user-friendly grief. meanwhile, help your daughter to realize what a adverse time her pal is going via, and how doubly confusing it is for her as her mom is likewise grieving and can't continually supply her daughter the help and help she desires. That mentioned, help your daughter to discover different pastimes which will supply her a wreck from her lady pal. you do no longer prefer your daughter to desert her lady pal, however the lady does choose time to the two artwork via her grief or get some professional help that gets her via this very attempting time. And be very specific to grant your daughter lots of hugs suitable now. teenagers do something called transference, and she or he's probable terrified that she might lose you!
2016-12-15 09:54:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was the same as a child, Im ok now. I let others walk all over me. Church and other activites didnt do any good, that just gave more people to walk on me.
2007-03-27 00:30:46 · answer #3 · answered by tammer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get her away from that environment. Can she change schools, would you be able to home school or a private school close by.
Get her around a different crowd, Have her join a church group or girl scouts or karate classes.
Good Luck
2007-03-27 00:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let her join some music classes . ask what she likes . what sport she likes. sports is the best way to make child outspoken. i was also like this i join table tennise classes . and went to national level to play t.t. i had a great change in my personality. don't interfier in her matter much, let her do whatever she likes.just advise her whenever is needed. she 'll be fine.
2007-03-27 00:46:02 · answer #5 · answered by krishna 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋