K so if you read some of my other question's you would know that my ex fiance and I split up about a month ago. Yesterday she went off and told me everything that was wrong in my life and how i wouldn't amount to anything and i would never achive any of my goals because i am bad with money. I am moving to Texas in 6 weeks and she said that her and a couple of our mutual friends (or so i thought were my friends) said "i'll believe it when i see it" and are laughing and talking behind my back, mind you these are 2 24 year olds and a 33 year old... So i deleted they're numbers and Deleted them off my myspace page. I get a message from my ex telling me what a jerk i am and i'm such a bad friend.... really, was that immature to break off all tie's with these people and move on?
2007-03-27 00:10:20 · 9 answers · asked by Deformation Age 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
drop them all SERIOUSLY!!! I noticed some people said moving away is just running from your problems but its not. some poeple like urself just want a fresh start where they dont know anyone and no one knows them! Good riddens i say to those so called friends! your ex seems like a total scumbag! sorry but shes not even worth keeping in touch with now! send a short and sweet email to all of them if ud like and leave it at that. if they were ur friends they wouldnt listen to her bs and gang up on u. HAVE FUN IN TEXAS!
2007-03-27 00:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you believe that your ex was going to tell you sweat things? When a relationship splits up and only after a month.. You should be prepared to listen all about these.. There are two versions.. The first is that they've told these things.. And the second that they
haven't.. (Probably because your ex is pissed off with you and wants to hurt your feelings) What should you do? Listen to her? Or act yourself? I think that you should ask them about their feelings.. They are your friends too.. If they are true friends they could tell you if you are wrong to something.. Have a chat with them.. Give them a change to explain what happened.. Don't get fast decisions.. If it's a lie you're going to lose 3 friends..
2007-03-27 00:43:37 · answer #2 · answered by Vasoula 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Holy crap your ex is a psycho beyotch!!!! No I would've done the same thing. Though I am not sure I would believe I word this women tells you - she has issues dude you are better off w/out her! If the friends didnt really say that crap I am sure they will contact you and ask why you deleted them and then you can discuss it w them.
I cant believe this chick!
2007-03-27 00:25:47 · answer #3 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
man went about this the wrong way what do they say about keeping frinds close and enemies closer... i woudl saty in contact with them only because of the pain it will cause me every time i will see them.. i will then use that pain so when ever things look back i will remmeber that main and use as a mitivation to do better, and once i ahve achieved my goals.. i will then not shove it in thier face but just gentelly remind them... i will give u an example.. i came from humble beginnig, and one of my college frinds told me that i cnat even afford decent sweater yet alone anything else...
i rememberd that moment... and not too long ago... i went out with him... and just happend to buy a wacth... of the same amount he earns in a year... made a point of buy a really expensive.. weater.. even though itss autumn...in london... and then reminded him that i remember what he said about me 8 years ago..in a joking way he wa already jealous... and then he just turned red...
it was cool
2007-03-27 00:18:09 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
It looks like your ex fiance is trying everything in her power to make you miserable. You could try asking these people if what she said was true before you deleted them. She might just be trying to get everyone mad at you and make you look bad.
2007-03-27 03:17:48 · answer #5 · answered by K~E~G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! i would of done the same thing, and kinda have in the past. My x left me when i went to Afghanistan and started spreading lies about me and how i treated her bad and hit her and crap like that. and i did the same thing dropped them all and i fell great for it. they were indeed the ones that were pulling me down. i have moved on and up making more money and all of them are in the same place i left them. LMAO
2007-03-27 00:20:51 · answer #7 · answered by MIKE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forgive them.I know its hard.I understand the feeling of deep hurt.Yet,the best thing we can do is forgive and move on.
2007-03-27 00:39:56 · answer #8 · answered by Sheeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them all speak wht they want... carry on ...
good luck in texas..... u can find a better a women.......
2007-03-27 00:15:56 · answer #9 · answered by Racingred 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋