how long does it take a woman to know if she is going to sleep with the man she just met?

Question

i heard a woman makes her mind up within the first three minutes is this true

Answer 1

On some unconscious level I probably decide in the first few minutes of meeting a man whether or not I would potentially sleep with him. That is not to say that I would sleep with him right there and then, but that if the circumstances were right in the future I would consider it.

The obverse is also true - there are plenty of men that I meet and decide right away that there is no way on earth that I would ever let him touch me!

In other words I guess I think we categorise people into 'yes I woulds', 'maybes' and 'no ways' pretty fast, but actually doing anything about it could take years....

Answer 2

yeah that is kind of true. I think the older women get, the more in tune they are with themselves and what they want. I'm not psychic so I can't tell what will happen ... but I know when I first meet a guy if I would let him hit it or not. If the answer is yes , he is a candidate, ..if through body language and actions he is interested as well...then we start talking and getting to know each other more. Sex of course comes with time and you have to get to know a person on more levels than just physical attraction. Like if I met a steve urkel type..well he won't be hittin it. sorry

Answer 3

Sometimes......I went out and partied before I was married and could definately tell if this was a guy I would sleep with or not. Maybe not in three minutes, but the ways he came on was a big hint. Some guys are just obnoxious jerks. Some guys it is hard to know them since they keep everything inside of them.

Good question, I would say give me ten minutes with the guy, then I could tell you, three sounds a little brief to me.....

Answer 4

you're portray issues too black-and-white. no longer all beneficial men are alpha men and all alpha men are not a$$holes (i'm one in each of those one!), nor do all men prefer an untouched or virginal female; no longer all men sleep around 1000's, and those that do, many have in no way had a baby or a affliction. comparable for females people: no longer all prefer the alpha male, some choose the shy guy, or the guy who would not have plenty or any journey with women people. all and sundry is diverse and so our their tastes interior the alternative intercourse. existence if packed with unfairness, double-standards exist in each courting the worldwide over; you could no longer enable it get you down purely on account which you think of you're diverse. The style of intercourse companions you or your companion has had, like age, is purely a meaningless extensive style as quickly as you detect the single you prefer to be with. to each and each their very own and means to them on their seek, much extra whilst they discover what they are finding for!

Answer 5

I think you can decide in the first 10 minutes or so if there is any potential you might someday want to sleep w the man. You can tell if you are physically attracted to them however you cant decide for sure until you spend more time w them OR get really really drunk!

Answer 6

I usually know within an hour if I am NOT going to sleep with him.

Sleeping with him takes me a bit longer.

Sometimes I only have to smell a man to figure out if I am going to sleep with him.

Answer 7

I would agree that if you want to, you know you want to within 3 minutes, but morally speaking, it can take ages before you decide that it's the right thing for you.

Answer 8

about 12 seconds

Answer 9

no no no no no it really depends on the woman, some wont sleep with a man until they have strong feelings for them, and others dont care, theyll put a bag over there face and do em then.

Answer 10

I think you've been talking to a stupid person. How can anybody make a judgement about something like that in 3 minutes? Most women aren't even thinking about sex when they meet a man, they're usually wondering how they're going to make it through the date well.