2007-03-26 23:59:47 · 23 answers · asked by anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
we have intentions of getting back together, but we dont seee eachother often
2007-03-27 00:04:31 · update #1
it was my idea to take abreak
2007-03-27 00:06:36 · update #2
Give him all the treats, with none of the stuff you want from him? Sounds like a good deal for him.....
2007-03-27 00:02:11 · answer #1 · answered by vospire s 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends with benefits IS a bad idea.
Like that saying goes "why buy the whole cow when you can get the milk for free?"
But if you must absoloutely have him in your life in that way, then you need to show him that you guys are JUST FRIENDS and make him think he could lose you at any moment. Even if he can't. Go out with other guys, make yourself available, and make sure he notices. I'm not saying go around and be a sl*t. But just let him know he needs to make up his mind on YOUR time.. Not his.
2007-04-03 18:03:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have purely had breaks interior the experience of, we've an argument, go away for 0.5 an afternoon or an afternoon, then come back and talk when we are calmer. per chance if issues are loopy nerve-racking a damage can be a superior thanks to sparkling the air. per chance very few days. Is there a girly mate you may stay with or some thing? only to provide help to both get faraway from the struggling with for some days. Breaks can really make you comprehend how a lot you neglected that individual, and make you opt for to attempt extra sturdy for them. they could kill a relationship, yet if you find yourself as in love as you look it can in all likelihood be only fantastic.
2016-12-02 21:32:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is. It blurs the lines as to why a break is needed, cause then what's the difference? Just words. Start as friends, work from there. Just sause you've been there doesn't mean it has to go almost right back to where you were, you need to get to know the person without the emotional sexual part. If it's as important to hiom as it is to you, your partner will wait till you're ready to take it further.
2007-03-27 00:29:33 · answer #4 · answered by Unicornrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to these Puritans...at least if you're sleeping with him and you know who he is, you aren't out hunting in bars for the wrong guy. Take your time, satisfy your itches with each other and consider your options; once you walk away completely, somebody is going to feel pain and then there's no way to return without some animosity...or rarely. I say 'friends with benefits' is the way to go: you'll find more long-term relationships as friends lasting longer than you will the ones that started the other way around...
2007-03-27 00:19:02 · answer #5 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Surely you get the benefits anyway with a boyfriend. Why are you taking a break if you aren't really taking a break? It doesn't make any sense.
2007-03-27 00:02:40 · answer #6 · answered by Notherenow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whose idea was it to take a break? If it was his, sounds like he wants his cake (no commitment) and to eat it too (still maintaining a physical relationship with you when all else fails). If it's yours then same difference. Bad idea. Stay committed or move on.
2007-03-27 00:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why buy the Cow when you can get the milk for free? The only thing this will accomplish is you are not together commited and everything else is the same.
2007-03-27 00:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Haveing a friends with benifits relationship isn't a good idea .
you have to ask your self just how much you actually care for this man , whether or not you love him or not and how much .
Could you handle the fact if he should go be with another woman? Do you want to share him. These are questions you need to ask your self.
2007-03-27 00:14:00 · answer #9 · answered by michele k 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
take a break is fine if you both agreed on it. but if ur going to be friends with benefits its almost the same thing but you can see other people. do you really want ur ex with other girls?
think about it
2007-03-27 00:10:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋