Does hooking up with a guy that has a girlfriend, and you know about make you just as guilty as the guy that cheats himself???
2007-03-26 23:48:29 · 15 answers · asked by Nicolle 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
In my opinion yes
2007-03-26 23:51:13 · answer #1 · answered by twyla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the general rule is: Stay away from guys that are taken...BUT if you are single, you can do whatever you want - he's the one who's taken and should not be cheating....you are not the guilty party here...he is! But, I should tell you that you shouldn't do it cos it might come back to hunt you (aka your bf might cheat on you)...other than that, no you are not to blame cos he should know better!
2007-03-27 06:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by Kat ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how you mean by hooking up. if just as friends then that should be ok. if you mean as in a relationship when you know he has a girl friend then you are both guilty and if i was his girl friend i would ditch the pair of you.
2007-03-27 06:54:09 · answer #3 · answered by fushia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No but it's not cool. He will always be most guilty because he has someone to be committed to, you have your self respect to be committed to. Show some class & leave the creep alone.
2007-03-27 06:54:16 · answer #4 · answered by CrazyEddy06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretty much and your also considered a wh*re for it too...good luck in life cuz it sounds like you dont have much of one.
ADDED JUST NOW,
yes its just as bad it's like your not commiting the murder you just witnessed your friend committing it, but all you did was stand there and let it happen. same concept your still guilty of doing something wrong.
also you dont know that girl she could kill you...i have a boyfriend and honest to god if i found out he cheated and who he cheated with...and trust me i'd put a knife to him and find out, i'd them find her and kill her literally and then i'd kill my man. you don't know how people will react so be careful.
2007-03-27 06:53:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating...
2007-03-27 06:53:08 · answer #6 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of trust (the basis of any good relationship) could possibly come out of such a relationship? The cost of your actions will result in (later) trying to talk yourself out of a situation that you acted yourself into. Live right and it will come back to you.
2007-03-27 06:58:51 · answer #7 · answered by DS143 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course, try hooking up with a married person isn't it the same concept?
2007-03-27 06:53:17 · answer #8 · answered by Orochimaru 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guilty!!!
2007-03-27 06:54:16 · answer #9 · answered by mary 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think so, because you would not be the one that is cheating.
2007-03-27 06:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by kim j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋