if i have to choose anyone whom should i choose whether i have to choose my parents or the one whom i love?

Answer 1

follow yor heart.decide your priority.only then u would know..But the best way is to convince your parents.good luck

Answer 2

Why should you have to choose in the first place? Don't know how old you are but if you are very young know that relationships may come and go even if you believe this is the person you love and want to be with right now. Just remember that there is a lasting bond with parents. If you are questioning it because your parents don't approve they are only want what is best for you. I realized as I got older and had children of my own that my parents were indeed wiser than I had thought. So point is...be careful in choosing if you feel that you need to for whatever reason. You may regret it if you choose to cut your parents out.

Answer 3

Well it again depends on u. Moslty in Indian and arabic culture its moslty seen boy and girls get married acording to aprents wish even though u got no idea how the other person is. Well there is nothign wrong in love amrriage but u got to see . U cant live ur life with love. U need money , job to survice , soceity (even though they are good for nothign still)
Well when i had the same feelign about u i realised well i go for love marriage . Since atleast I dont regret at the end.
Well i know in country like india where caste is given first prorty(which is bullshit i think ) many girsl have no choice.
Only thing i say good luck for ur better life

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Answer 4

my suggestion is go for parrents.
but you can choose anyone of them.use your mind not your heart.
first of all u write on a paper what are the merits(what u gain) and demerits(what u lose) to choose your parents or whom u love. what will happen if u choose parents and then whom u love.I think this will help u take right step.

Answer 5

God forbide anyone from having to choose between their parents and the one they luv. If ever someone is faced with this decision, then it shud be solely thier choice or decision cos only they know the depth and intensity of their relationship with thier parents and luv ones. But still if force to make a choice, i think parents or family shud come first. We can always choose a life partner but our parents and family have already been choosen for us.

Answer 6

In normal circumstances, a healthy relationship will become a part of your family and a unhealthy relationship will pull you away from the family. Your parents are concerned about your entire life...the next 60-80+ years. Go to your parents and tell them you need to discuss the pros and cons of this relationship in a calm manner. Agree on boundaries (no raised voices, listen with respect, 5 minutes at a time of speaking from your heart, etc.)

Answer 7

neither of the two bcuz you can have them both. You can't compromise between your partner & your parents bcuz they are both important (i suppose) in your life. Unless how bad can he/she be? that your parents oppose the relationship? Remember that no parent would ever want their children to be mistreated, they always want the best for us. When confronted with situations like they go against our choices in life (particularly the significant other), usually they have a reason to be alarmed. However, if you can prove them otherwise, parents will always understand & accept in time. Provided you stand firm on your decision & can manage the ups and downs of life.

Answer 8

Now a days,the decession made by the youngsters become failure because of their hasty actions: Love is not a tapoo: but you people has to think before making love: Your family back round,education,caste,greed & etc: You have to determine your life: We are goign to live once: It must be peaceful on all sides.There should not be any comment from any where: We are not super powers and Billgates to do anything as we like: we haev to do all w.r.to our surroundings

Answer 9

i think u shd not give up any one relation for another. try to maintain both bcos both r equally imp. in life. u cannot choose ur love leaving ur parents away since they r the reason u r there and u shd never forget the things ur parents hv done for u, how bad they r, they r ur parents and no one can be as loveable as parents. But i dont say th. u shd give up on ur love, th. is also imp. so try to balance bet. both - it may be hard at times, bt giving up wl be easy bt u may not be able to gain back wht u forgo once.

Answer 10

Its hard to comment with the information you have given,but enough to say if your parents and your partner both love you then its up to them to get over whatever it is that is causing the problem.
You should all be grown up enough to deal with this, and its so unfair to have to choose!

Good luck to you-i really hope you dont have to choose.

Answer 11

You really shouldn't have to choose one over the other....your parents raised you for someone you would come to love and marry, and your girlfriend or wife, should love you enough to accept the fact that you love and care for your parents. It is unfair to have to choose between the two....so make that clear to whichever party is making you choose. Good Luck.