She say's that she no longer has feeling's for them, she has run up big debt's and her husband has had to remortgage the house. She is being like a zombie and will only talk about insignificant thing's. She is like a stranger to me, with no emotion.
2007-03-26 23:23:58 · 17 answers · asked by Binks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
She got tired of the crap and left it
2007-03-26 23:39:52 · answer #1 · answered by skcs11 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She could be having an early menopausal bout. She could be having drinking or drug problems. She could be suffering from clinical depression - not all depression involves lying in bed and not moving.
There is a thing called an intervention and it takes different forms. With alcoholics, for instance, a group of family and friends confronts the person to let them know that they all love her, but here specifically is how her drinking is effecting their lives. It doesn't always work, but the idea is that a shock - coupled with support - can bring the person to face a problem they are avoiding. first the drink - and then whatever other problems are associated with the drinking.
You might consider something like this. If you have a doctor - a psychologist - a trained social worker - a neutral referee is often a help in a confrontation, because it can get very painful and very personal. Those doing the intervention need to prepare together in advance, and set out some clear ground rules.
Her husband ought to be involved, and perhaps even the children - they are old enough.
The walking out is a symptom. You need to find out the problem before you can help her solve it. It may be she doesn't even know what the problem is at this point and she is simply running from her fears.
2007-03-27 06:31:42 · answer #2 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you to support your sister all the way, pray for her...in life there are a lot of things you won't understand, however I want you to open your mind and try to at least support her harsh decision. life is full of twist and turns, and perhaps your sister has not been treated like a wife, like a Mother. is so unfortunately that sometimes people do not appreciate others. I seen so many wives who basically are like another piece of furniture in their house, Mothers treated like strangers, treated by their kids with such of little respect. I hope that if you (anyone) have your wife/husband, Mother, sister/brothers please show a little love, respect ...do something nice, say something nice to that person. Show you appreciate them. I hate when people die and hear other say "oh he/she was so nice" to me that's BS, too little too late. You must appreciate and help others here and now.
I hope your sister finds the right path. It's too bad she doesn't want to know anything about her kids, because you can always divorce your husband or wife but from your kids, never.
good luck and have a great day
2007-03-27 06:50:20 · answer #3 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's going through a hard time and no-one may kno what it is! try to talk to her and ask if her health is ok. it could just be the fact that she has found someone else, but she does care about her children i can tell you that, she may just say she doesnt because of depression of not knowing what to do! just make sure you are there for her no matter what she is being like! good luck
2007-03-27 06:33:32 · answer #4 · answered by xXkizXx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs professional help. On the surface it sounds like drugs have taken over.
2007-03-27 06:30:22 · answer #5 · answered by Kenny Ray 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's had a nervous breakdown and is suffering severe depression. Try to get her to a doctor or this may result in something worse, like possibly suicide or other reckless acts.
2007-03-27 06:27:22 · answer #6 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get her professional help immediately before those children are further traumatized. This is an Emergency.
2007-03-27 08:02:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her console her ; digs for the answer and she will tell you provided you are willing to help listen and solve the problem nevertheless you are blood related
2007-03-27 06:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by beauty_behind_the_pain 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Complite norvous breakdown. Since long time huge pressure coming on her. no more no more. Help Her Pls.
2007-03-27 06:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she is on drugs or an alcoholic, or she is tired of not getting the respect a mother deserves from those teen agers, they can be very demanding at times..
2007-03-27 06:28:09 · answer #10 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She maybe having some sort of mental health crisis. Talk to her and get her sone help!
2007-03-27 07:06:51 · answer #11 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋