Can you pin point why you felt that way. Do you use name calling like racial slurs during sex, that would otherwise be taboo?!? Is this a secret relationship family or even friends don't know about, and who decided to keep it a secret & why.
Is it something you both know is temporary or do you think you will get marred one day and/or have kids. Do you secretly wish to go back to your "own" race but don't know how to tell her/him?
2007-03-26 23:14:29 · 10 answers · asked by NativeAtlantean 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I once dated interracially and I loved every minute of it I even have two beautiful children from interracial relationships. The lovemaking was great, but that was because I know how to do "thangs"that can make any women love it.! That's comes from experience. Ask me what you wanna' know!
2007-03-26 23:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds to me like you just might be referring to yourself? And the initial taboo turn on has faded into "oh my God will someone find out" The freakyness is great as long as no one else knows, but if your family knew chances are they would not approve. Personally I love to talk dirty but racial slurs - why that would just prove one to be a racist at heart and that it's all physical so I guess that would rule out family and kids one day. If both people know from the start it's just a temporary thing -that's all it is and everything should be cool. But why would you do someone from another race when you secretly wish your own. I have a problem with the word secret, in essence it means your being phony. I am Hungarian and my husband is Black, we get pretty freaky but race is never an issue. I married a man not a race.. As a matter of fact I married my best friend and never thought about the race issue until someone asked me " what's it like being married to a black man." And it caught me off guard and I said "he's Black I hadn't noticed." I saw the person within. Race issues are to say the least nonsensical. We are all the same under our skin. And the person secretly wishing to be with their own race should have the guts to be honest. No sense hurting someone else cuz you wanted a freaky taboo.
2007-03-27 02:40:23 · answer #2 · answered by godmamaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am currently involved in a mixed race relationship and, sexually speaking, it is the best I have ever had simply because my partner is the love of my life.
I am finally deeply involved with someone I am truly in love with and it feels soooooo good!!!
No we do not use racial slurs during sex (what for?) and no, it is not a secret relationship; everyone we know is aware that we are a couple because we live together as husband & wife.
Matter of fact, quite a few people we know are expecting us to get married, eventually.
Personally, I do want to marry him and the sooner the better!
And no, I do not wish to go back to my own race; why should I when I have the best I have ever had in my entire life?!?
Hope this answers your question satisfactorily.
Take it easy buddy!
2007-03-26 23:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Devilish Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dated extensively in almost every racial background I can think of off-hand and I have to say: women are women no matter what country or national heritage they claim. There are some minor differences in sexual proclivities and acceptance of the interaction between men and women depending on where they come from; but on the whole, it depends on the individual, more so than color of skin, religious or linguistic preference.
Women who grow up outside the continental U.S. tend to be much less uptight about their bodies and sex on the whole than those raised in America, if only because our founding fathers were Bible-thumping, puritanical freaks. But, for the most part, the more a woman from anywhere finds you to be interesting and exciting, the more likely she is to be open to suggestion and participation.
2007-03-27 00:10:16 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I dated this white guy...best sex I ever had in my life , like 2-3x/day every day for like a year....but it wasn't because he was white. It was because we were in sync with each other and paid attention to each other's desires. We never crossed the line of using racial slurs. We both knew it would be temporary and that we would never get married or anything
2007-03-26 23:29:39 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly234 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've dated interracially and I never really put too much thought into wether the sex was better because of the cultural differences of the two, however, I found that my partner was attentive to my needs which in turn made me attentive to his.
2007-03-26 23:40:06 · answer #6 · answered by universalove2001 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have dated interracially but i did not find it better based solely on the race issue. infact the two i had dated were equally bad as other lovers from the past. but those experiences have not closed the door entirely to that option.
2007-03-26 23:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i dated interracially and during... sex.. i call names.. they can be racially..orientated but... its stays there.. sex is same unless with asian (chinese, phillipino ) women etc here i found the sex to be MUCH better, ummm oh incidently ia m nt white i am latin and have never dated a latin girl,,,
2007-03-26 23:19:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dated a hot mexican chick but the sex was just as good as the other chicks
2007-03-26 23:22:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i am australian sleeoing with an asian girl and yes we do use racial slurs and no i dont want to go back to my own race asian women are just dtraight up sexier
2007-03-26 23:19:05 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋