over the past month or 2 i have had 3 dreams in which i cheat on my gf, but i love her alot and i kno id never cheat on her.
so y do i keep having these dreams?
what do they mean?
2007-03-26 23:11:46 · 12 answers · asked by kooltom1991 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dreams are always the opposite
2007-03-26 23:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Johan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you will have to make the final decision on what it truly means i wasnt there to see the dream nor do know you but if you dont mind i can throw in some ideas and opinions that i have....o.k. assuming you said go for it here it goes....1-do you wake up aroused when you have this recurring dream? 2-are you sure you dont know this fantasy dream person and its what you want secretly? 3-if its just a dream have you shared this recurring dream with your lady? 4-and last but not less important are you sure that your girl is totally fulfilling every niche in your life or are you needing or wanting something that she is not handling go back and think about every detail of the dream i think that you might find something about the strange woman you really find attractive or something that she does in the act that your current girl is doing and maybe your afraid to ask for from her (she cant fulfill any unknown wants or needs you have if you dont speak up) and if she refuses then ask yourself if this maybe the reason for the same dream over and over again but above all dreams are very powerful and important things people should pay more attention to and not just shake it off as a"dream" when your mind is at rest thats when you can relax and be truely happy and if you are dreaming like this it means your mind is not at complete peace its trying to tell you to see my needs to hello im here so investigate and handle your business no matter what the outcome you should be happier and dont be afraid to share any fantasies you have with you other half if she loves you she will only want to partake to make you happy good luck...angel
2007-03-27 06:45:44 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams mean nothing as such (not in the sense that they predict the future anyway), they are merely a reflection of what your subconscious mind is thinking / worrying about. Maybe you were once accused of cheating when you didn't? Maybe you are afraid that you will somehow lose your girlfriend through some mistake you will make? If you subconsciously worry about things of that nature, that would explain the dreams you're having. Just your mind's way of dealing with things you worry about below the surface.
2007-03-27 06:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps deep inside you are questioning your love for her. and your dreams are just a way of showing how you feel if you ever lost her or were unfaithful to her? i'm not one to follow dream meanings usually but when i think on something that is deep in my heart i usually have strange dreams about it (ie i dreamt something similar once except i was worried about whether my boyfriend of the time would cheat. and kept dreaming of him cheating).
If you really love her, you would disregard those dreams as just dreams but dreams sometimes do signify that something is on your mind in the deep unconsiousness so it must have been a thought or concern to you recently??
2007-03-27 06:18:16 · answer #4 · answered by ppl_tell_me_im_insane 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just that deep inside you think you might lose her, so you dream of cheating on her instead. Don't pay too much attention to dream, just enjoy the moments you are awake.
2007-03-27 06:16:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't mean a thing...unless you've been thinking about other girls....one in particular maybe?
Thinking about it and doing it are two totally different things. That's what defines action from thought....the act. You may have seen some hottie that gave you wood and now you feel guilt. Stop worrying you're fine.
2007-03-27 06:17:12 · answer #6 · answered by LaLa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams do mean something...maybe down deep within you you think on other people( or on something new, exciting...it's normal)
don't worry though...I admire your discipline and love for her, but dreaming is good...
sometimes, we look
at other people and admire their beauty, it's ok human beauty is unique. there should never be limits on dreams so is okay if you dream just don't put them into practice
2007-03-27 06:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by John R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey it sounds to me like you are dreaming you fantasies let you girl know what happens in them and maybe she can help you suppress them by taking the sexual frustrations away by acting them out with you.
2007-03-27 06:16:23 · answer #8 · answered by Robin M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams are not always the opposite! my opinion is... its probably something you've thought about a couple of times, but you constantly push it out of your mind (into your sub-conscious) and it comes around "hunting" you in your dreams! or something like that!
2007-03-27 07:07:49 · answer #9 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is testing you if you follow your dreams than the devil is your ally. the devil wants you to be on his side so there is more sinners that are against God.
2007-03-27 06:22:02 · answer #10 · answered by Kariella D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋