My husband is a really great guy,like one in a million.We've been married for 5 years now and up until pretty recently I've completely taken him for granted.He's a great provider and does most of the cooking and cleaning around the house while I spend all day socializing and shopping,taking it all for granted.He still brings me flowers a few times a week and does these incredibly romantic little things that just make your heart melt.I never realized how badly I was treating him up until recently when he was in an accident and I thought I might lose him.I've been horrible to him these past few years,going out of my way to make him jealous,ignoring him,disrespecting him and showing a complete disregard for his feelings at times.This was a huge wake-up call and I want to do something really romantic for him for our 5 years anniversary next Friday.He treated me like a princess while I treated him like trash and I'm desperate to make it up to him. Any ideas would be greatly appreciated.
2007-03-26 23:11:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know exactly how that feels. My girlfriend takes me for granted most of the time and I am starting to believe that nice guys does in fact finish last.
But it would be nice if you cooked him dinner on your annerversary and while your sitting at the table, take his hands and tell him that even though you haven't showed it to him often, you appreciate him and everything he does for you.
Tell him that you might not have noticed it in te past, but thats all going to change because you don't want to loose the love of your life.
The first step to a better relationship is admitting that there is a problem. And that you did...
Try this and good luck!
And remember never take love for granted because it's the most beautiful gift from God.
2007-03-26 23:20:45 · answer #1 · answered by advocate_shark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and tell him how you have not appreciated him and want to make improvements...this is the first thing you should do so he feels trust in you and a feeling of acceptance...
Presents cant cover this up...honesty and communication will be the key here....
2007-03-27 06:16:10 · answer #2 · answered by chaminda l 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start sharing the household responsibilities and let the guy have some time to enjoy some of his hobbies
2007-03-27 06:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to tell him i appologise for every things i made you
then start a new life with him
you will see he will appreciate it
2007-03-27 06:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by karim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
come on girl... you know your man better than we do!
2007-03-27 07:32:25 · answer #5 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋