My guy friend keeps getting really moody and ignores me sometimes. Otherdays he is so lovely to be around, i mean more often than not he is cool but it's just certain days he gets so moody and he dosn't say anything to me. I do believe he really likes me in a 'more than a friend' way. And i think sometimes he may be doing this because he thinks we'll never be together like that. I really like him too, do you think that could be why he's doing it? I can't think of any other reason cos we get on so well. Do guys do that sometimes when they are around a girl they like? I am worried cos i don't wanna lose him as a friend. And am worried maybe he's going off me cos nothings happening between us. We are both in our twenties. What do you think i should do?
2007-03-26 22:58:24 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask him. Talk to him.
2007-03-26 23:00:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that he's ignoring you because really he wants more but hasn't got the bottle to tell you possibly because he's either frightened of messing up the friendship that you have got, or he's figured that your not interested in him "like that". He may also be frightened of rejection.
The thing is if he asks you out, whatever your answer things will never be the same between you again.
He is also doing ignoring you out of frustration as well. He may well feel that you are leading him on and he's not "getting anywhere" with you.
He's nuts about you!
One of you has to take the initiative and ask the other out and seen as you asked the question............
2007-03-26 23:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOu should ask him whats going on when he's moody, show your concern for him. Tell him about your feelings for him. Some times a guy will just get frustrated because they think the girl they really like is not really interested in them.
Or maybe he's just having a bad day, or has things on his mind.
2007-03-26 23:08:51 · answer #3 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do no longer comprehend, i'm in this occasion too. Kinda. He signs and indicators in yet he would not communicate plenty, or while he does he's off. It kinda sucks, yet it extremely is life. I certainly have lots of "genuine-life" friends that are better than adequate! final time we've been speaking and he grew to become into extraordinary I informed him to message me next time he needs to speak. He hasn't, so i assume it extremely is it. That stated, your adult adult males msn might desire to easily be broken. :)
2016-10-20 13:00:43 · answer #4 · answered by seelye 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give him time. Something might have been said to him that didnt' sit to well. My best friend used to do that to me and I just ignored him and he always came back around. Just stay friends with him and let him make the first move. I promise it will get better.
2007-03-26 23:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by Alicia E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Us men are like that sometimes, If we dont get the right vibes back from a girl or if we think it is only ever going to be friendship.
You girls can be the same you know !
If it will be, it will be.
Good luck hun . xx.
2007-03-26 23:03:16 · answer #6 · answered by iain xx 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is possible that those ocasions are because he is having a bad day and has nothing to do with you. Him ignoring you suggests to me that he is not comfortable disscussing his problems with you. If you want to know whats bothering him then just ask him and listen.
2007-03-26 23:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him alone and give him the space he wants.
He sounds unstable.
2007-03-26 23:09:18 · answer #8 · answered by Y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he wants to be more than friends.
2007-03-26 23:04:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to him. it sounds like he needs some space. guys can be strange
2007-03-26 23:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by princess1226 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably likes you, he wants you to notice him
maybe he got new friends and his new friends doesn't want you to get in his sight
2007-03-26 23:15:26 · answer #11 · answered by Kariella D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋