I was with him since I was 16, now I am 20. For this last year we have had to do the whole long distance thing for school...he was gonna be back in 3 months but this past month I could tell it was different. It is hard with the distance but he doesn't miss me or tell me he loves me. I asked if there was someone else, he swore there wasn't. He said it was just the distance and it would be different when he was back. When I told him I can't put myself on hold like that and that it was over. He said he was sorry he wasn't here and hung up. I can't help but think of how amazing it is when we are together. He had spent every christmas in the past four years with my family and everything. How do I let go of all those memories?
2007-03-26 22:45:11 · 7 answers · asked by me 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im sorry u r going through all this pain and confusion.But as people grow..things change..their tastes..their feelings change...they mature.Seems like he is unsure..seems like he doesnt want the relationship anymore.Try to get over it..u r 20..life is still young and beautiful.Hnag around with friends..do the things u always wanted to do in yr life..new exciting things would certainly cheer u up.Life doesn't end at him..u deserve someone who loves u..dont waste your life crying for someone who doesnt care.good luck:)
2007-03-26 22:50:41 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont let go of the memories they will always be with you , but you have to look at that this maybe for the best for the rest of your life maybe you two werent meant to be together in this life , and maybe you will have a better chance in your next life it may hurt know but in a year or two or even 6 months you may find some one that your soul mate so maybe this guy is helping you do this !
2007-03-27 05:55:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand......Its never a right time to say goodbye! Don't try and let the memories go they will fade away in time. But try and keep yourself occupied with other thoughts and things. Good Luck!!!
2007-03-27 05:50:14 · answer #3 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gona need to give it some time but it will eventualy bring a smile to your face and not tears. Go out with your friends keep your mind busy so that you dont think to much and try to have a few friends with benefits
2007-03-27 05:59:21 · answer #4 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of us will go through this stage, I think almost 90% of our early day relationship will not work out. yup, understand the pain that you going through, but time will wash away everything. you should concentrate more on your study and who knows you might met your prince along the way. this is life, we fall and stand up again. wish you all the best and get over it ASAP.
2007-03-27 06:02:07 · answer #5 · answered by wrongspots 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh it really hurts a lot but don`t forget there are many fishes in the ocean. if 1 gone another will come. its called life dear. hope u quickly erase all those memories and go back to your life and enjoy..............
2007-03-27 05:53:33 · answer #6 · answered by @my 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweet memories cant be erased, u can find some one as per ur liking.. this will lighten ur old sweet memories.. u will be floating in new one... carry on sweety........
2007-03-27 05:57:19 · answer #7 · answered by Racingred 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋