I am about to start something new with an old friend. Neither of us want a relationship yet, but I don't like the idea of either of us sleeping around with other people at the same time. I want some sort of monogamus relationship, but I don't need all of the expectations of a real relationship. More of a friends with benefits, without seeing other people, and it doesn't have to go anywhere. How do I tell him what I want before we start anything?
2007-03-26 22:33:40 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I just don't like the idea of sleeping with someone at the same time as someone else is. I still feel we both should feel free to explore other options, but not at the same time.
2007-03-26 22:44:03 · update #1
Boy does your e-mail smack of control and selfishness issues.
You want "friends with benefits" status with "monogamous" overtones?
No such animal! The kingdom hasn't created that yet!
You are a CONTROL FREAK and you know it!
2007-03-26 22:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yo want to have your cake and eat it huh?
its either or ,or neither nor for you.gotta pick,either youre in or youre out,no mid ways.cant work.i sense you like this your friend alot?!!
2007-03-27 05:41:11 · answer #2 · answered by 9k 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋