I went to a live show with 2 guys in a company who is going to be our supplier. I am a concert organiser and I have met them 3-4 times. After the show, we went for a drink and I got bisous (?)- kisses on the cheeks from both of them. I One of the guy's kises seemed longer. And the next day I got a business email from this guy with his first name only. While in the concert, we sat very close because he is quite big. Am I just too sensitive or starting to like him?
2007-03-26 21:55:09 · 4 answers · asked by LitMit 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I guess it depends on the line of business.
In my experience work that requires a fair amount of networking seem to form friendlier relationships. For example you would never see someone in the public service doing the bisous cheek kissing thing.
Your becoming more aware of this guy and noticing things you would not have before. Chances are you are attracted to him. If so, just let it flow for the time being. Don't do anything rash. Mixing with business and pleasure is not always a good combination.
You're a concert organiser so I am not surprised that they are being friendly. Its in their interests to have a good working relationship with you. There is nothing bad about it.
Just tread carefully.
2007-03-26 22:00:53 · answer #1 · answered by pamela p 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what you mean by a 'bisous' kiss... if it was just a peck I wouldn't worry about it. Signing an email with just a first name is nothing important especially since you've had several meetings with him. Sounds like you ARE starting to like him.. just aren't too sure if he likes you!
2007-03-26 22:02:13 · answer #2 · answered by endorable 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i would tell them
"i dont like you like that"
2007-03-30 17:44:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is just business.and being polite
2007-03-26 22:12:43 · answer #4 · answered by helly 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋