i use to but i'm over him
2007-03-26 20:00:18 · 7 answers · asked by Pie iz GOOD!!! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i had denied before even though he was nice and pleasant.Every individual has its owns strengths and weakness.Mine might be the denying part.It is healthier for you to deny than to accept.After all, it is you who is going to live by your decision.
2007-03-26 20:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by cool_honeybabe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can make a denial to anyone regarding ya love, even upfront in the face of the the one you love.
In reality you are only deceiving ya self...
The crux is... would denying that you love someone make matters better or worse?
2007-03-26 20:07:49 · answer #2 · answered by glitzynicole 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was in love with someone for 8 years but I always denied it. And then when I finally got the courage to ask him out- he rejected me!! Ouch! But I still loved him. I am over him now, haven't heard from him in months. And then he called last week and said he really wants to see me. Waaaa!!!
2007-03-26 20:07:28 · answer #3 · answered by lolo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yeah, of course.
being in love means you are vulnerable, especially if you happen to fall for the high-risk type.
i fell in love with a guy once, and he, well, kicked the bucket. i went around for years denying that i ever loved the guy, even to myself, simply because i could not deal with the fact that he died.
anyway, eventually i did admit the fact that i loved him more dearly than my own life, and amazingly, it felt so much better. just being able to release the burden of that secret and grieve openly gave me such relief.
so here's a bit of advice. just admit that you love the guy, to yourself. it will make you feel a whole lot better.
love is crazy, we cannot control it and we hardly ever see it coming. we cannot choose when or whom we fall in love with. take comfort in that thought.
2007-03-26 20:16:30 · answer #4 · answered by silivren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone does that occassionally. Maybe even a couple of times in their life.
Why?
Well, being in love makes us weak and vulnerable. Most of us never want to admit this possibility. It's difficult.
And sometimes you might love someone...
But you know they are not healthy for you.
2007-03-26 20:04:48 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ariel♥ish♥ness♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on why you are denying yourself love?
2007-03-26 20:12:11 · answer #6 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope
2007-03-26 20:13:08 · answer #7 · answered by maggie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋