2007-03-26 19:55:12 · 34 answers · asked by infernos_heart 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They do it because they are afraid of being loved by you. They do it because they don't want to feel vulnerable. It's not easy to love another person. You have to be open with that person. Sometimes you have to leave someone alone for a while. That person might start to love you again.
2007-03-26 20:02:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything got easily is worth nothing, those are only testing time if the love between two people is pure.
It is only those pain, sufferings, humiliations makes a man more perfect.
The more you suffer and handle the situation right, then you are travelling towards success.
More the pain you undergo more the mature you become, and that can teach you to handle such situations wisely, then you will have no need to ask for public opinion.
And above all pains and suffering are part of the love story and with out that love is not complete, it is only those pains stand as sweet memories of tomorrow.
2007-03-26 20:27:40 · answer #2 · answered by sarvedha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't love, you may not mind whatever the other person does. You can either ignore him or hit back in the same measure.
But with the one you love, when the other hurts you can not ignore, neither you can retard, being spongy. That is your problem.
Love should gradually lead to respect. Smile it out and react in such a way that any more hurt will be treated with more smiles, and not with words or actions. So, a silent, distant smile can be the best remedy.
2007-03-26 20:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by marsh man 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well actually its the feeling inside u make u feel ths way. When u love some one u get to posseive about her even a simple no makes u upset. Its normal buddy even i been through same situation. Just relax and take it easy. Give some space . Enjoy other things in life work, go out with friends dont think too much about ur lover all time.
all the best
2007-03-27 00:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People whom you don't love can't hurt you cause you can't care less.
People whom you do love and who love you in return more often than not don't hurt you intentionally. When someone you love does something that you don't like, what you think hurts you... its mostly the same kinda hurt other people cause you, but because you love that person, whatever that person has done, the hurt will be magnified.
You can't numb the pain, it will only get worse.
Peace be with you and God bless :)
2007-03-26 20:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by mushucheeks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are always going to hurt the ones who are the closest to you, and of course that would be the ones you love the most and the ones who love you the most. I know, it didn't help much, but it's the only answer that has ever made sense to me.
2007-03-26 20:00:34 · answer #6 · answered by Squeakers 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
SEe love is blind and atleast U have said someone that U love I didn't even say that well for U R all problems I w'll give the solution just ignore that grl then she comes back to U she is U Rs if not she is not U R that means she never loved U.
2007-03-26 23:05:26 · answer #7 · answered by Rumana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be'coz we love them and so we feel that they are hurting us. It is nothing but our mind think that the person to whom v love should never say anything to us but just should be polite with us and do or act whatever we like whether it is right or wrong. Even if they try to correct us, we think they are rude to us.
2007-03-26 23:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because the ones you love matter the most
2007-03-26 20:03:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because they r the one's with the most control over you. You have intense feelings for them. They make you vulnerable. Hence if something goes wrong, you are hurt more by them than someone you barely know who might call you a foul name... or whatever the scenario is.
Good Luck!
2007-03-26 20:00:14 · answer #10 · answered by coolchick 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋