Hi, me and my girlfriend went out for almost 9 months and we would fight everyday towards the end of those 9 months, I have done plenty of stuff to not deserve her anymore and stuff. Like I made her cry and really did not care if she cried, it was to that point that we were fighting soo much that we would get in fights everyday. I used to be one of the nicest people you ever met but I completely changed towards everyone including her. I just regret freaking not realizing it before that I needed to change. I love her so much like its unbelievable, like i never cheated on her or anything, i just treated her badly and she never cheated on me. Its that I realize that she is the love of my life and now we have broken up. She is trying to move on by talking and going out with this one guy, but I just got her to start talking to me again and she talks to me a lot and we hang out here and there. How do I get her back? Its been only 1 1/2 months since we broke up and we are both 20
2007-03-26 19:53:06 · 7 answers · asked by vdawg 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her exactly how you feel. Let her know that the last month and a half have been miserable without her. Apolgize for being so mean, and try to explain to her why you behaved that way. Tell her, I was going thru something, I didn't realize it at the time, but i've changed, and i'm different now, and make sure to tell her that you truly love her.
2007-03-26 20:04:19 · answer #1 · answered by knhglassey@sbcglobal.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think you have changed? Maybe you are just lonely? Or you see her moving on with her life? If you truly do care than tell her, what are you waiting for? She needs to hear how you feel right from you! Don't leave it wide open and assume she should know. Be a man about it! For both of your sake, be sure tho!
2007-03-26 20:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by sue d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to work hard and win her trust back. Prove to her that you have changed. It'll take some time. From what you wrote, she was obviously hurt deeply. Try a little romance, flowers, etc. and just be a loving person. A little prayer might not hurt either.
2007-03-26 20:01:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, are you all the sudden realizing you love her so much just because you know shes seeing someone else, because thats what it sounds like, and if this is the case, you really need to think about that, because if it is then you need to stop trying to interrupt her life and move on with yours. oh and why were you so mean to her, you need to figure that out first before you try getting her back..... you need to do some good ol soul searching find out where you are with yourself , then let her know what youve been doing and how youve taken control of your demeanor
2007-03-26 20:04:41 · answer #4 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as sappy as it sounds poar your heart out and tell her how you will make a change and then the ball is pretty much in her court. you just need to make her realize that you know you were wrong and you want to do everything in your power to change for the better.
2007-03-26 20:03:30 · answer #5 · answered by summacca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
win her back... don't fool yourself... tell her everything that you're wrong in everything you did!! and make it up everything say sorry to her because maybe she will forgive you... You know that she still loved you... Start making things right.. explain everything to her that you did wrong... Be sincere and don't lose hope because if you really want her back then you should be patient and understanding every time...
2007-03-26 20:02:04 · answer #6 · answered by rhean s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, she's spent more time with you...you know...her heart and mind invested longer than the new guy. approach her as if you are a new guy. woo her back as if she's a new girl..but tell her of your intentions. peace
2007-03-26 20:03:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋