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Question

I had sex with my friend some 5 days back..since then im jus not able to concentrate on anythin else..im 20 n she is 21..v keep fightin most of the time and we decided v will have sex again 2 days from now bt till then im jus not able to concentrate on anythin else..and im sure after i do it again ill be only waiting for another time..how do I control my feelings..?? how do I stop thinkin about it all the time..and when ever I feel it I just masturabate and i keep doing it everyday just to get rid of that feeling..pls help me..give me some genuine advice as to how should I stop this ****..

Answer 1

Relax for one, second find something else more constructive to do with your time, and thrid stop worring about because I know from my own experience thats whats going on. I can tell pretty quickly because of the way its controlling your day that your not getting good vibes from it as much as aniexty. Because when you stop worring about it, it becomes something that uplifts you. An extra bit of information that makes the regular day a little bit more tolerantable. Your best bet is just to talk to her... not about the sex, but about life , you, her, and anything else you can think about. You need to be more comfortable with her and yourself and it won't seem so overwelming and comsuming. Its not easy you need to start loving yourself frist.... ether way good luck, and remeber that the line between love and obession is only divided by your own self worth... so figure out that your going to get it, its going to go great, and you might have the lady of your life. And put it all on the backburner tell the next time you talk or see her. Tell then concentrate on reading, excersicing, other friends, and a darn hobby.