I been together with someone more than a year. He seemed serious abt me but maybe Im not really that certain after all. He has a girl friend.Not me.Someone else. When we 1st started, i felt toyed.He spent little time with me. Called me once and probably met up every once a mth.However mths ltr, things change.We started meeting up more often. His tone filled with jealousy when realised i was on good terms with another guy.He pulled me back.Im glad he did.We became more attached, but I can't go to his house and his friends dunno of my existence.I feel miserable, even at this point. He assured me he's not playing with me and he never get near to tat girl friend of his since.Though not meeting her 1to1, he appear to be protecting her from harm but hurting me instead in the course.He says he knows but he dunno how pain it feels inside me. We quarrel alot to the extend he shouted he couldn't stand me anymore and walk away.Yet he still call to make sure im home after tat.He love me or her?
2007-03-26 19:07:46 · 12 answers · asked by yan m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how stupid are you?
you are just a booty call
he calls you when he is horny......
U NEED TO GET AWAY QUICK....you are too attach.
2007-03-26 19:12:17 · answer #1 · answered by Pro Bush 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He dosn't love anyone but himself. If he actually had respect for himself, and women he wouldn't be dating two girls at once.
You deserve better, you deserve a man who is dedicated to you and only you. The bottom line is, if he actually loved either one of you, he wouldn't be dating both of you.
Dump Him! Before it gets worse. A guy like that is not worth fighting for. Don't you think your worth more than that? You don't honestly think you deserve to be treated like a last resort do you? Find someone with enough of a backbone to commit. There are plenty of good men out their, you just have to put down the loser and step out into the sunshine honey.
Good Luck. :)
2007-03-27 02:14:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well - I do know this. He loves HIMSELF!! He doesn't seem like a person who can love another. He's too self-absorbed. He doesn't want you to be on good terms with another guy - and yet he won't introduce you to his family or friends???? Is this what you think you deserve? To be treated like dirt?
Does he love you or her? Why would you even care? RUN!!!!
2007-03-27 02:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by liddabet 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he,s contraling that,s not good.here,s a love test #1he pays attention to you. #2 he complments you. #3he makes time for you,#4 he flirts at you and calls you cute names like sexy and butterfly, and #5 he never over powers you.
2007-03-27 02:15:34 · answer #4 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these types of persons are just testing their choice.in my opinion you are already with no valid marks. he may fade away from you soon. just make it a point to discuss openly and let him come out with full acceptance that he loves you.if he dodges, it your best thing to say BYE.
2007-03-27 02:15:47 · answer #5 · answered by dpkdrj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should jus move on to someone else. this guy seems really confusing and has a lot going on. besides, i think he feels ur relationship is comin to an end.
2007-03-27 02:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by BeProud 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He diffinately doesn't love you and he probably has another girl friend. Your wasting precious time thinking you have any kind of future with him.
2007-03-27 02:13:52 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he doesnt love either one of you. he's with the two of you for totally different reasons all to his benefit. dont let him do this to you. dont worry about the other girl. your concern is not her. your heart is hurting. this guy is gonna continue to toy with you as long as you let him. make that decision for him. drop that punk!
2007-03-27 02:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he love her more but at the same time he care about you. maybe he love you but not as much as he love her. Just ask him the truth and be ready to face the truth.
2007-03-27 02:13:35 · answer #9 · answered by Tia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just wants control.
2007-03-27 02:11:49 · answer #10 · answered by AK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋