I'm one of three counselors in my group of friends. As in the person everyone easily comes to in order to talk about issues. Blessing and curse, what can I say.
Anyways bud of mine. Usually he would seem the type that would be with one woman, says he is that way etc. and now is feeling bad that he fell into a situation where he has multiple women and doesnt know what to do. Guess who he comes to for advice. Yeah, me!
he's 19 living w/parents, no job, etc. But seen as the nice hardworking guy down on his luck by all of us.
Anyways
1) fiance, highschool sweetheart and love for two years. call this the main girl.18 yo
2) a friend to girl 1. emancipated self from parents and moved out. Guy plans to maybe move in with her
3) girl in illonois, sexual interest but she slightly hints that she wants to like him more than that. Even paying her own way to visit him soon.
4) 2nd non blood related 2nd cousin (his step fathers cousin) in africa. Also 16 sooner 17.
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2007-03-26 19:07:30 · 2 answers · asked by rezruf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
4 cont) basically if fails w/ fiance wants to go after her.
5) girl in our group he has had crush on since highschool. But all onesided with him. She is off in college has boyfriend and such. My friend is hoping that he catches the rebound (which with the relationship the girl has, is bound to happen) for some chance at her liking him. Previously she turned him down labling him as just a friend, but since then treated him better/nicer.
these girls mostly know about eachother, he's very open about what has been happening. And they all have been accepting it somewhat.
He also is open somewhat to new relationships and such, and he doesnt intend to but he lets himself get into this sort of stuff. He even hopes to one day go to japan and find his perfect woman there.
I honestly dont know what to say to him about this. Usually I could come up with something for relationships and such but this is too complicated for me.
2007-03-26 19:14:05 · update #1