I have a dream to married at young age (now I'm 19), but it's seem impossible, coz now I'm still single T.T
Any advice, what I'm gonna do to get a boyfriend. I'm really appreciated.
2007-03-26 19:02:13 · 12 answers · asked by sora 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Young marriage would be the choice, if you were in love with someone at a young age. You shouldn't find someone just because you wanna be married young. If you're searching for the right guy you probably won't find him, somehow the right guy comes along when you're not looking for him.
2007-03-26 19:09:48 · answer #1 · answered by LoveisfirE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you meet someone, have been together for a long time (at least a year!!) and know that you are completely, truly in love with them. If you have doubts, don't get married! My opinion on young marriage is if two people are so in love, why can't they wait until they are older and are more established with careers and a strong financial foundation on which to build a happy life together? The basis for most marital problems is money, so it's better that you and your partner have steady careers before you decide on tying the knot.
Get an education first, and a good job, then worry about marriage. Your 19, what's the rush? Have some fun! Enjoy being young and single while you can. I know lots of older married women (in their 40's and 50's) that would give anything to be 19 and carefree again. Live it up!
2007-03-26 19:09:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should change your dream of young marriage to a dream of marrying someone you cant live without.
And going search for a boyfriend, for the purpose of getting married young, is just going to ruin both of your lives in the end. And then what will that do, you will be divorced at 30 and still looking for a husband.
Theres nothing wrong with wanting to get married, but take it easy. Find the "one". In 40 years when your old and have grandbabies, it wont matter if you got married at 20 or 35.
2007-03-26 19:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO!!! Why get married? That means you are tied down to the same old tired *** forever! You need to SHOP AROUND and stop being so pitiful. You are a great person all by yourself and you are in need of no one or nothing to make you feel complete! I got married at 20 and I was WAY too young! I would at least wait until I was finished with college.
2007-03-26 19:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by nelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the problem is that you are in such a rush to get married and that probably is a big turn off for guys your age. dont set goals for when you are going to get married just wait until you meet the right person and it will just happen and you both will be happy because it just happened. if you do want to get married now, chances are you will say yes to the first guy who asks you and your marriage will suck so wait for the right man he is out there. if you want a boyfirend talk to more guys there is always going to be someone who is attracted to you.
2007-03-26 19:10:59 · answer #5 · answered by nik456 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young marriage is not in these days. Wait till you're 29. Meanwhile have fun, do some awesome things, and save some money.
2007-03-26 19:09:30 · answer #6 · answered by Traveler001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and not focus your future being the wife...be the person you are now and want to become and that special person will cross your path at the right time, but if you sit and wait for such a thing to happen your opportunity for paths to cross may never happen...for example , if you want to continue your education, go to college...have a particular job ...pursue it...the person you are meant to be with is waiting out there for you...
2007-03-26 19:10:32 · answer #7 · answered by Goodspeed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do'nt be in a hurry. there is always a right time for everything. your still young. enjoy your life as a single and just wait for the right guy that god will give you. me, got married at 25, and happy 'coz in waiting god gave to me a right one.
2007-03-26 19:09:35 · answer #8 · answered by Martinne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when i was younger, i had the same dream.. now, im taking it real slow... find yourself "the one" but take your time, if you really want to get married now, try living with a guy with a kid, no marriage, just dating... it slowed me way down, no dates, just routine-breakfast, lunch dinner, groceries cleaning, laundry, get the daughter,bring her back to her evil mother,sleep, work, repeat...over and over...in the almost 8 months i've been with my boyfriend.. we've never had an actual date... i moved in almost as soon as we started dating, and we do chores on our weekends together and take his daughter out on his wkends with her...trust me, wait, and shop... the right one will show..
2007-03-26 19:14:59 · answer #9 · answered by Isa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dreams dont always come true..........dont rush having a boyfriend. you want a relationship to be real right? just wait your turn. it'll come before you can realise it. theres nothing wrong with a young marriage if its true love.
2007-03-26 19:09:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋