What should I do?What is really going on?
Im finding myself in love with my bestfriend.Ive been friends with him for about 2 almost 3 years we always hung out but Just a few months ago i noticed he was pushin up on me and ive always thought he was cute always had alil somthin for him but he was showin me that he really liked me but he has a gf n i had a bf but we are no longer together and yeah we had some intimate times and he was in jail and he was promisen me all these thing soon as he gets home we are goin to take a lil vacation and get a room and make up for lost time and since hes been home he hasnt been acting the same and now he seems to be pushing me away for the gf that had him put in jail he is putting her before me all the hugs and kisses and him not wanting me to leave him and him wanting to be with me 24/7 and having me stay with him and get rooms just to be together him holding me and kissing me n not letting me go just dosent seem to be there anymore i dont know what to do or whats going on
2007-03-26 18:57:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My guess is he want's to 'have his cake and eat it'. From the sound of it he enjoys being with you and all, but when he's around with his gf he ignores you probably because he know's you'll come rite back to him when he calls on you. His gf however seems to be the type that's got him wrapped around her finger...thus the attention he gives her.
As hard and painful as this may sound...Girl he ain't no Bestfriend if he want's to treat you as a lover behind closed doors and a stranger when he's with this girlfriend. The heart wants what the heart wants that's why suggest you use your head and keep your distance and start acting like his BESTFRIEND and gain his RESPECT by keeping both your feet firmly on the ground and NOT his LUST by getting a room...it's not fair to you or his gf.
Learn to love n respect yourself first and if it's meant to be...he'll do a 180 turn and come right back to you...FOR GOOD. All the best
2007-03-26 19:11:20 · answer #1 · answered by AngelDee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good the best way i see it you could both simply let it go and keep ure friendship with ure bestfriend or date her and break a friendship!However in the event you do date her,are you sure it'll be valued at potentially destroying your friendship with that man over a girl you could not even spend the rest of your life with??I think you will have to have requested her to be your female friend method before your friend got transfered to your college or atleast you must have informed him you have feelings for her so he wouldnt have requested her up to now him!!!
2016-08-10 22:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by anekey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give yourself a chance. try to have a good relationship that you want..but put yuor limits. if you know that he also love you like the way you love him then go for it, give it a chance! after all the foundation is good..friendship!
2007-03-26 19:05:08 · answer #3 · answered by Martinne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sounds like he wants you for sex.... don't do it! he's been to jail stay far from him!
2007-03-26 19:25:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW
2007-03-26 20:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by Pie iz GOOD!!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
..sorry no can do
2007-03-26 19:00:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋