Hiya, where can i take this very very shy girl on a second date...although i will not use the word date. I think the first one went well but there was a few awkward silences that ran to 20 secs. should i wait a week until i phone her...i texted her last but she will not return it unless i was texting and asking her somthing to get amn answer back. shes opn nighshift this weekend...can a 2nd date be done for tuesday or wedensday? when should i phone her?
2007-03-26 18:56:41 · 9 answers · asked by Lightroller 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
to be honest, unless she is prepared to try and communicate with you , it could be a long night full of those silences! I would just text her, let her know you had a great time and you'd like to go out again if she would, then leave it. She has to make some effort, even if it is only a one word answer!
2007-03-26 19:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you don't contact a girl/woman in 3days, your not interested and she will move on. So make contact three days after your dates or kiss your chances goodbye... also make sure you book dates 3+days in advance or she will think she is your last choice/option. Never make plans in the early stages of dating a day before or day of unless she says she isn't doing anything and then you do too. though this will make her look easy to you and likewise you look easy to her. The chase is then done and attraction will be lost. So stick with the 3day rules.
Good Luck!
2007-03-26 19:10:17 · answer #2 · answered by coolchick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, yes. The second date. Just do it. Time doesn't matter. My wife was like that. Didn't connect for a long time. Been married over 30 years now. You might get lucky. The shy ones are deeper than you can imagine.
2007-03-26 19:03:12 · answer #3 · answered by MMM 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think she likes you, CALL HER ! Don't hesitate because us women HATE IT when you don't call. We want to know that you care even if we do not respond to your texts. Say something like "hey I was doing this and htis.. and thought about you" or something like that... don't expect an answer but just know that it feels good to know that you're thinking about her. Also... about your second date.. try something fun... Like something active where you don't need to really have deep conversations. Maybe something like mini golfing.. or rafting, orrr paint balling. You can also take her a car racing place that is also lots of fun and she could enjoy that. since she is shy try kissing her cheek while you guys are having fun and let her know that you enjoy her company. Later on.. you could taker her somewhere to eat-- not too fancy.. just tie it into the occasion and she should have fun. Good luck !
-Dr. Mar
2007-03-26 19:04:55 · answer #4 · answered by Mar-Mar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text her asking if wants to go cinema and for food tuesday or wednesday or a day that would suit you both she replies yes or no that way you no where you stand,if does not reply wait for her to contact you so your not doing the chasing girls to do not like being pestered let her make some effort to and if she is interested she will reply and make some kind of effort.xx
2007-03-26 19:10:03 · answer #5 · answered by easty90210 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
text her and asked her a specific question , like will you go out with me again , use u r spell check though as she may not have understood previous texts if they look like your question
2007-03-26 19:46:32 · answer #6 · answered by welshelf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you just ask her directly? What's the worst that can happen? she'll say No, and then, what?
2007-03-26 19:01:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just take her shopping! if you can afford it!lol
2007-03-26 19:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
to a temple / church / holy place.
2007-03-26 19:00:11 · answer #9 · answered by man_vir_in 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋