was at this party,and started talking to this girl for a while,we ended up sitting on the couch and started kissing, i told her i liked her and didnt want to do this if it was because we were drinking. she said no i really like u to. i gave her my # and she gave me hers,that was about it,but the next night i started talking to her again on aol IM. i asked her if i was at all bothering her that night and she said no,i just felt bad because i didnt want to like lead anyone on, i was really drunk. i told her again that i did really like her,and that i really wanted to talk to her. she said i know. i asked her if she remembered what happened on the couch,she said a little, so i told her we were kissing,but she didnt say anything. told her i was going to get off the computer,she said ok it was nice talking to you, have a good night. i said maybe we could hang out sometime, she said yeah sure. i said u were really fun to be around,i think u would be awsome to hang with, she said aww you to.
2007-03-26 18:49:12 · 21 answers · asked by wyte529 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yea you should call her and then you should hang out w/ her again
2007-03-26 18:51:52 · answer #1 · answered by MJ2000 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yep...call her....you have certainly asked her all the right stuff. The only thing thats kinda backwards is if you haven't even asked her out by calling her then how is it you were kissing on the couch. Don't you feel alittle guilty for taking advantage of her like that. I mean thats just wrong...you don't do things backwards like that because other might think its cool...because it isn't. On a bigger scale do you think it would be ok to see a drunk guy sitting on the curb and he had a ten dollar bill hanging out of his pocket and you go over and take it from him because he probably wouldn't notice? See what I am saying here? Not trying to trash you but hey.......I think you would want some honesty here so do her a favor......ask her out and do it the right way...call her on the phone...don't text her; don't IM her ; don't e-mail her; call her on the phone and ask her out and the next time you are at a party maybe you'll want to think about keeping your lips to yourself especially if the girl isn't exactly sober.
2007-03-26 19:01:44 · answer #2 · answered by chcman74 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea you should call her but give her a few days..then call her one day and make sure you have a good conversation starter....
its better to talk to someone on the phone or in person, because if you talk to someone so much on the computer then once you are actally interacting with eachother the convo will be really slow and blan
2007-03-26 19:12:39 · answer #3 · answered by Hug It Out 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there, sounds to me as if she is either shy or if shes not sure what she wants 2 do herself, is she with someone already do you think because it sounds like shes holding back.
You should find out if there is someone in her life already first but she cant be happy even if there is because she wouldnt be talking 2 you at all otherwise.
2007-03-26 18:58:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds interested but you are making her uncomfortable with the 101 questions. don't sound so desperate ! call her but don't talk about the party. ask her how her day was and actually listen and try to find something in common to talk about and keep the questions to a minimum.
2007-03-26 18:59:47 · answer #5 · answered by gclambert2004 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send her a text if you're a bit too shy to call her outright. Then when you feel a bit more comfortable - give her a ring!
You have to start somewhere! and by the sounds of it she quite likes you back!
xx
2007-03-26 23:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have half the battle won! You spent time with her, you kissed her, you called her and you are still communicating with her. What is the problem?
2007-03-26 18:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by Rosanna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello , the lights are on and there is no one at home !!!
call her , why else would she have given you her number
talk voice to voice IM is so impersonal get to know her
take her to a film or for a meal go easy on the booze
2007-03-26 19:52:03 · answer #8 · answered by welshelf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how old are you?
If you liked her so much, why are you going to just 'hang out' with her sometime? Why not ask her out to dinner?!
you sound sweet but clueless....or possibly 14 years old.
2007-03-26 18:53:28 · answer #9 · answered by rose_merrick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your pestering her and she is giving you the answers you want to hear. sorry to be so blunt, but I don't think that she know's how to tell you to go away. HOWEVER! I could be entirely wrong.
good Luck
2007-03-26 19:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋