there is this guy (nick) and he COMPLETLEY insulted me by calling me fat in difernt terms and i want to get him back. plus the fact he goes out with almost every grl he admitted it too but he still does it. i want to socailly destroy him but not let him know who it is little by little. any ways to?
2007-03-26 18:21:53 · 8 answers · asked by kate_lohse11 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just look at him straight in the eye and go,
"Creatures like you don't even DESERVE to be put on this earth. So excuse me while i do you a favor."
then WHAM! hit him in the balls
:D
i find that a very effective technique.
2007-03-26 18:32:59 · answer #1 · answered by Juliette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yet what will this accomplish.Will it undo the words he said.Then again why does him calling you fat anger you.Words that people say only have power over us when we allow it.He doesn't appear to be a nice guy so what.Why be around anyone who would attempt to hurt you in such a way and why try to continue walking in that circle.The effort you will waste trying to down him in the eyes of your social circle is energy you could use to lift yourself back up.
Striking back is only good if others will actually believe what it is you wish to leak out but most guys can't handle the thought they have a small dinky and suck in bed.
More then that what you need to bare in mind before causing yourself any more pain is his retaliation once he learns you are the one trying to get him back,because it will get back to him eventually.He will most likely come out the hero in the end and you vindictive not to mention all you will do is give him more fuel to down you more behind your back and in public.
2007-03-27 01:37:45 · answer #2 · answered by ddstantlerstill 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, there's death by a thousand cuts, the Chinese water torture, having horses pull him limb from limb. All these work. But why put the energy into destruction. Put energy into construction. Build your own confidence and self esteem and don't worry about him. He's not worth your energy. Learn to love yourself, to accept yourself as you are, without judgment. If you can truly accept yourself, then you won't worry about what another says about you...because you know what is true. Don't tarnish your own integrity by wasting time on him.
2007-03-27 01:27:57 · answer #3 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want the destruction of a guy because he goes out with lots of girls and called you "fat." Maybe you should consider ignoring him?
2007-03-27 01:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes waaaay too much energy to do that. Ignore him completely. If anyone mentions him or the comment he made just laugh and remind them he's an idiot.
2007-03-27 01:27:57 · answer #5 · answered by MissWong 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get in shape. use that as motivation everytime ur running and want to stop. find someone hotter. show off ur new hotness subtley (sp?) and make him jealous. this is all if ur actually fat and he's not just a stupid jerk btw.
2007-03-27 01:28:50 · answer #6 · answered by FANTABULOUS1017 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really just get over it, who cares what he says, plus you dont want the problem to get bigger then it already is! revenge is was causes all these school shootings, not saying that he is gonna pull something like that, but just forget about him.
2007-03-27 01:25:51 · answer #7 · answered by Guten Tag! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just hit him where it hurts thuh most ! muhahahahha
2007-03-27 01:25:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋