I want to go to prom w/ a guy, but he doesn't want to go. A lot of people were bugging him about going w/ someone else and now he doesn't want to go at all. What can i do to get him to go and go w/ me?
2007-03-26 18:19:51 · 16 answers · asked by Leslie M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stop bugging him
2007-03-26 18:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Bring him aside and ask him why he doesn't want to go. If it's because everyone expects him to go with a specific someone, then drop hints that you still don't have a date, and how sweet it'd be to see everyone's face when you two show up together. If he's into you he'll ask you, if he's not, then you should move on rather than waiting. The worst thing you can do is wait for someone who isn't into you while someone who wants you misses his chance because you're stuck in a fantasy.
2007-03-26 18:27:45 · answer #2 · answered by Trancendence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him frankly about his reasons. Also, keep in mind that proms are REALLY expensive for the guy and he may simply not be able to afford it. If that's the case, you may want to help with the costs?
Or, choose another date. It may not be your first choice, but at least he'll be there for the right reasons, and not because he felt pressured into going. That's not the way fabulous memories are made.
2007-03-26 18:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is selfish of him. Your young only once. You get only one prom. If he wont go, ask some one else to take you. Even ask his brother. But go. Don't let him cheat you out of a teenage memory! Your his gf not his dam slave!
A wee bit of advice. I don't see this relationship lasting any way. As this boy sounds so selfish, self centered, it's all about him. I think if you stay with him your gonna be the one who always is crying. As it appears to me he don't care how much something means to you. He just always gonna do what he wants.
2007-03-26 18:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't even bother. Since he can't seem to take a hint without refusing other people to say he's going with you, then he doesn't truly want to go with you. So, instead of making you feel bad, he tells others he'd rather not go at all. It was a nice thought, but if I were you I'd find someone else. He sounds like a dud to me.
2007-03-26 18:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by chole_24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you like him and that you really want to go to the prom with him and it'd mean alot to you if he decided to go....if he says no then just find someone else to go with or go with a group of friends
2007-03-26 18:28:32 · answer #6 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know how much of a great time you both will have. also let him know that it doesnt matter what anyone else thinks. the have nothing better to do then to judge others. you both should go just to give them something else to talk about. only god can judge me
2007-03-26 18:27:28 · answer #7 · answered by hottie hot hot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find another date, even if you get him there he will riun the night, Another approach is ask why he does not want to go and see if it a fixable reason.
2007-03-26 18:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who really wants to go, or you will have a rotten time, and regret going with someone uninterested in going.
2007-03-26 18:27:57 · answer #9 · answered by sochiswim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you like him and you want to go with him. Otherwise, get another guy
2007-03-26 18:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what's more important to him: your request or what people think. I think he might just be a jerk because people who care about what others think are too ego-centric. I am sure that you will get somebody better.
2007-03-26 18:22:04 · answer #11 · answered by miss_magic047 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋