Getting over him?

Question

A few years ago I met this adorable guy at a place close to where I lived and where he worked. We had a mutual attraction and needless to say I developed a huge crush on him. We never made it official boyfriend and girlfriend but I always wanted him to be my first boyfriend. We always talked with each other and visited once an awhile. I even kept in contact with him when I moved away for school. The two of us would have weekly conversations and would visit when I would come back home. The last time I spoke with him he said he was moving to another state etc... I got very upset when I heard the news and told him I would call him right back. When I did I got no answer and tried for the next couple days. Since then I have not heard from him and have moved back home after graduating. Lately I have felt horrible not having any connection with him. I even had a dream about him the other night and it doesn't help that his former place of employement is on my route home. What do I do? thanks

Answer 1

That sounds tough. Sorry you had to go through that. Unfortunately, time is the only healer. You can busy yourself with hobbies, but I know for me, it's hard to focus when you're hurt. I feel your pain. Try not to take it too personally. Maybe he felt a little uncomfortable about upsetting you and didn't know how to respond to it. Try not to be too angry at him, forgive him for his shortcomings and try to move on. And most of all, take care of yourself. Eat right, drink water and get plently of rest when your poor body is going through so much stress.