did he use me?

Question

we dated for a while, he says he didnt know how i felt, he went with my best friend, they didnt have sex because 'he knew it was wrong' ha.later we had a precious son :)he asked me to marry him, i said no (i was only thinking of the time he went with my bestbud) a year later i started dating again so one night he calls at 5am asking 2 come over to talk he starts trash talking the guys i recently dated, later he says he wants to try to get back together but take it slow, hour later we go lay down in bed to go to sleep, half hour later he is putting the moves on me,another half hour later we are doing the dirty, afterwards we go to sleep, next morning he watches our son for a while then says he has to go home and pack (he was going for 3 days w family to vegas) and leaves. he calls later and says to let him go to vegas and then get back and get better settled (he's looking for a new better job) and we'd talk more about things
what do ya think? does he want to get 2ghr or did he use me?

by the way, while we were making love he whispered in my ear if he could come inside of me. i told him no because i had forgotten to take my bc. he said too bad and something about we could have another one. then he did it anyway. gggrrr. later I told him I would take the morning after pill anyway.

Answer 1

yeah, he used you, some guys are way too persuasive, they are so persuasive that they believe their own lies, and thus make the lie even more believable.

But you have to take into account that even guys who use can see their errors and make up for it.

Every so often one guy will come back and appologise for using you and one in every so many of those will realize that a girl like you is just what they need and will try really hard to make up for using you.

You can have faith that he might be that guy, but don't let that faith blind you again, unless he straight up admits to using you, he probably wont ever, of course there is a small chance that he really didnt use you, so if he comes back and the sex isnt a central focus then he probably didnt use you.

Answer 2

If you have to ask, you have doubt, if you have doubt, throw him out.

Definitely used.

Good luck.

Answer 3

God!!!!!!!!!!!! He used you!