i miss him soo much, and i know the right answer is to be friends, but i already rejected him the first time when he asked to be friends...i feel bad now cause he never said a word to me ever since.....its kinda my fault it had happened. What should i do now? should i try to be friends or just move on and hope i will get over it.............
2007-03-26 18:01:17 · 10 answers · asked by Star 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why? it will only cause pain. Make a clean cut. p.s. Men and women can and do become friends. It starts with honesty and trust, and no hidden agendas.
2007-03-26 18:06:24 · answer #1 · answered by All That Glitters isn't Gold 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is my opinion, take it or leave it!
I find people ask to be friends after a break-up because they feel less guilty and bad about the break up. Being friends with an ex is possible, but it takes a lot of vigilance and self knowlage. You can`t be friends with an ex you still have love feelings for them. This is just a recipie for danger. Make sure you have both moved on before started a friendship. If being friends with you ex makes you feel nervous, bad. guilty or uncomfortable in any way, you must stop this relationship. You can try again later, but make sure you are comfortable. Forget about his feelings and decide with your own feelings.
2007-03-26 18:09:56 · answer #2 · answered by Lou 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 00:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men and women cannot be friends #32
2007-03-26 18:04:23 · answer #4 · answered by Tadow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its hard to be friends with someone you use to have feelings for. When he sees you with a new boyfriend its just going to be really awkward and might hurt him =(
2007-03-26 18:08:16 · answer #5 · answered by Coonsie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its really ur dicision...i mean if you want to be friends and hang out places without feeling awkward because he was ur X orr u can jus leave him alone and make him THE PAST or something..i usually go for being friends..my X bf is now my friend and we go places together and stuff
=))
2007-03-26 18:08:41 · answer #6 · answered by Miss j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously there was a reason why you broke up, so I'd say just move on and take it as a learning experience.
2007-03-26 18:06:33 · answer #7 · answered by v k 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would just keep things simple for right now. since you just
broke up, down the road you can see if you can be friends.
2007-03-26 18:04:39 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with open up ur heart, as in just tell him wat u think. If he doesnt think u guys can work it out as friends, then,,,too bad.
At least , u are not keeping ur self curious about what would happen if u tell him..
2007-03-26 18:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by kylie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...
I doubt that he will ever trust you again..
2007-03-26 18:06:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋