i met him 3 yrs back when i was still with my bf..i rejected him but he never ever gave up..things changed,bf left and i just thought why not give him a chance since he still wants me. Basically im just going through a depression of losing my bf and not ready for commitment though my age is already over 30.Recently i thought of starting all over and all he is interested is to have sex with me.. he keep begging for physical contact..i dont know if he loves me or just want plain sex..pls help im so confused.
2007-03-26 17:23:27 · 8 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like a horny guy who doesn't have to work for it. He is using you.
2007-03-29 17:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by arejokerswild 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If he loves you, he will respect you and be willing to wait.
You must decide now how intimate you want to get, and then tell him, and stick with it. Don't change your mind in the heat of the moment. If you decide you do want to do more, think about it and talk about it with him when you're not being intimate.
My guess is that he wants sex. (All guys do all the time...) If you are in any way not sure if he loves you or not, I suggest limiting how intimate you get with him for now. If he loves you then he will want to do what you are comfortable with. If he's willing to stick around knowing that you won't be having sex with him for a while, then maybe he does love you. If he just keeps pressuring you, dump him.
I just suggest...wait until you know for sure that you love him, and that he loves you before getting very intimate. There's nothing wrong with waiting. If he doesn't stick around, then he doesn't deserve you anyway!
2007-03-26 17:33:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh wow sound like your haven a bad time huh? will first of all if thats all he wants is sex then that could be a bad thing. You need to find out first if he's really inlove with you. Becareful and protect yourself. Make sure you love him too and it's not a rebound thing. Take time for yourself and figure out what you want. use your brain don't let him think for you.
2007-03-26 17:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Tracey Fahnestock 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he is only interested in the sex. Have you talked with him about it? You haven't been with him long enough to expect a long term commitment.
2007-03-26 17:27:49 · answer #4 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
dam he is relentless to say the last so watch him and dont let it go to far and see how he reacts to cerain situations some guys are needy now a days
2007-03-26 17:27:46 · answer #5 · answered by east2west 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you might think he only wants sex but some men need that for him to love his girlfriend more. so basicly its not about sex but how willing you give all of you to your bf. but if you're not sure with him, don't give him!
2007-03-26 17:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by anne 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doesn't look at all something to go for.
2007-03-27 16:56:39 · answer #7 · answered by de2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him you wanted to mary him. if he ask why tell hem this is the right age for you.and you will get the answer.But i don now what is your life is,like how is your behave,and his.If you thing he is good right fit for you stik with him.3 years mean a lot and must bee good.bless you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!0407.
2007-03-26 17:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by l_Geniuse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋