We have to make the first move
2007-03-26 17:16:23 · 32 answers · asked by klvly7151 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i object to some of the disparaging sexist remarks! some boys are shy because they are scared. scared of you. scared of their inexperience. we are expected to do so much, and all you girls are expected to do is say yes or no and dance! we have to harder end of relationships in general, i say.
2007-03-26 17:28:39 · answer #1 · answered by F-14D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U dont always have to make the first move but yes most guys are shy and its because they are raised with high standerds and have a hard time with rejection. Hope that helps.
2007-03-26 17:29:58 · answer #2 · answered by LJD4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys who are betas are shy because they are programmed that way. Alpha males are not shy though and will go up and approach girls like crazy. If you are not being approached a lot it may be because of the way you present yourself or because of the places you go to meet men.
2007-03-26 17:19:49 · answer #3 · answered by Reeve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because most boys would rather have a finger cut off, very slowly, than be rejected by a girl. They would rather not risk at all, than possibly suffer the horrific emotional pain of rejection.
2007-03-26 17:20:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we are terrified of being accused of acting "inappropriately" (or worse) if we make the first move. I know for me I would need to know you were definitely interested before I said anything.
2007-03-26 17:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by teef_au 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i totally agree WITH YOU. this guy i like is so shy hes waiting 4 me to make the first move, and im the one who is more shy. UGGG its so annoying, i know what you mean. add me to ur contacts and we can chat:)
2007-03-26 17:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by aminallover29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it too!!! They are very shy to do something, and then when you do it, it can happen that they even get more scared and shy that they may run away. who can undestand them???
From the girl that has "----Been heartbroken by a shy guy----"
2007-03-26 17:21:44 · answer #7 · answered by Yayis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we're not shure most of the time wether girls are ready for the moves we wanna make... we don know if its the right time!
2007-03-26 17:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because the things u do make them feel uncomfortable believe that.. some guys r just shy but there are some things girls do that makes them uncomfortable
2007-03-26 17:18:37 · answer #9 · answered by TG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really! i guess thats just their stupid nature! not ALL of them are like that though, just the good ones. Ones that just wantcho goodies will just come up to you and try to throw a line but the good ones just glimpse at you from time to time but don't do anything about it. Guess we gotta deal.
2007-03-26 17:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by neeek :] 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋