I have a gf and i like her a lot but i like her best friend a lot too. I'm not very liked already by most girls where i live so this is tough. I really like the best friend and i want to go out with her but she is known to always turn down guys. If i dump my gf and ask her out and she says no they ill be left alone with a lot of people hating me. but can i keep on living a lie
2007-03-26 17:10:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u seems to be very unhappy with ur gf, if not then why do u r attracted to her best friend. If u don't want to continue the relation with ur gf tell her frankly that ur have developed feelings for her best-f. Then see what is her reaction to this. If she understances u then ask her to think what will she do if she would be in ur place.consider her suggestion. If she gets angry to ur conffesion then tell her that u where kidding & want to see how much she loved u.
so try this one out. All the Best.Bye
2007-03-26 17:31:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Grow up...liking someone does not mean you have to act on it! Enjoy being around her through your gf, but don't dwell on any fantasy cuz it ain't gonna happen.
Thank God you have a gf and treat her with dignity and respect and enjoy the relationship she is willing to have with you.
You are telling yourself a lie if you think that you have a chance with her best friend, so either way it's gonna be a lie. Would you rather be living a lie with or without a gf? Believe me, good best friends don't date 'used boyfriends'.
2007-03-27 00:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by minimickimichelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start out as being friends with your GF's BFF. If she like you then she'll be your friend because you'll be "just friends". If this grows then you can dump your GF and move on. Wait a little before asking your new girl if she likes you. If she says no then you'll at least have a friend (and personally it's easier to have your crush as a friend than not have them at all).
2007-03-27 00:17:48 · answer #3 · answered by stars 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a lose-lose situation for you. If you dump your girlfriend, you'll definitely not be able to go out with her best friend. If you continue in this relationship with your girlfriend, it's most likely you'll lose yourself in the long run.
2007-03-27 00:18:26 · answer #4 · answered by fatPig 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't anyone here care about how devastated the girl he wants to dump will be if he goes out with her best friend? That's cruel!
2007-03-27 00:29:37 · answer #5 · answered by mikha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is that neither relationship will work out. You are obviously not committed to your current relationship if you are interested in her friend. I doubt even if she is interested in you that dating her girlfriend would be successful as she will feel guilty dating you.
My advise would be to remove yourself from both relationships, make some new friends and start a fresh.
2007-03-27 01:20:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk 2 her 1 on 1 one day but dont be like all over her cuz then ppl might see & that will get you in alot..but just talk 2 her then bring up somthin bout likin ppl & be like "so what do you think bout me" than if she says that she likes you THEN you break up wit ur gurl & go out wit her
~13chula13~
2007-03-27 00:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by .:CHULA:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to you true self. Everyone of us knows what to do but the unfortunate part is we deny it.
2007-03-27 00:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Yogurtlover 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well BE SURE THAT YOU ARE TRUE TO YOURSELF,BECAUSE YOU WILL HAVE TO LIVE WITH WHAT EVER YOU DO.SO BE KIND TO YOUR HEART AS WELL AS TO YOUR GFS HEART.
2007-03-27 00:19:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋