I work in the fashion industry, theres a designer there whos 40, im 25, hes married. We've been flirting alot, he asked me to dinner, i said ok, he said he wants to take me to Vegas to stay at a 5 star hotel and we dont have to have sex, hes going there for a fashion show and said we could have fun, going to shows, concerts, etc..hes a nice guy..
I like him but im kinda scared about going,, what should i do?
2007-03-26 16:54:13 · 30 answers · asked by tbo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesnt have any kids, he just got married a year ago.. His wife is 28..
He says hes having alot of problems with her and do not get along, he says he did it to make his parents happy.
Im just worried if I will get a bad rep in the industry ..he knows alot of people.
2007-03-26 17:04:30 · update #1
If it's non sexual, which I doubt, ask to bring a guy friend along
and judge his reaction.
2007-03-26 16:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by redman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is too funny, because you actually believe what you are posting
A "nice guy" would bore you to death, and its obvious this guy is a jerk -probably the kind you always like
Don't worry most chicks get turned on by controlling, lying, and cheating jerks - and such attraction to evolutionary seed spreaders who clearly had a survival edge for the first 5 million years - is simply natures way of keeping the species going
2007-03-26 17:02:57 · answer #2 · answered by JET99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If I were the 40 yr old guy.. I know that whatever happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. Im sorry cutie, but when it comes down to it he is going to want something in return and this is his way out.. I would bet to say that his wife doesnt even know that he is going to take you to vegas. Lol
If I were you I would send me your pic then come out and visit me in Japan.. HA HA HA j/k
By the way what do you do in the fasion industry to begin with?
-D
2007-03-26 16:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by -Dr. D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhh.... No. If the married guy that you've gone to dinner with want you to stay in a hotel with him mentions the fact that you don't have to have sex when you go to Vegas together... He's probably wanting you not to feel pressured, so that you will feel more comfortable when he makes a move on you.
So, if you don't want to have a relationship with a married guy... Don't Go!
2007-03-26 17:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... well it sounds like fun. However even some "nice" guys have "down falls".
If you aren't attracted to him in a sexual sense. Don't go. Because that sounds like a booby trap waiting to happen. LOL
But if you do go... be ready to deal with the "drama" from the "momma" if she is to find out.
Nevertheless, I'd just keep it at a professional level so it doesn't interfer with work.
Good luck...and if you go to Vegas. (tossing some money) Win some for me!!
2007-03-26 17:01:12 · answer #5 · answered by Lo Lo G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no you shouldn't go. You shouldn't have even went to dinner! Karma is a mother so you might not want to get married later in life. Or if you do watch out for the 25 year old's please.
Girl I'm trying to be your friend here. He is married and that is very disrespectful to his wife.Don't you think? He sees you and he sees an easy lay regardless of what he says. Be stronger and better! come on now...do it for women!
2007-03-26 17:00:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, he's married. so you're asking for trouble by going with him.
secondly, are you sure that you're not going to do it? i'll bet that after a few rounds of beer, it's going to happen. even if he's a nice guy. you're old enough to know that.
but if you really don't care about what would happen afterwards, then go with him. just hope that after the trip you won't write here again telling about the wife that threatens you or that you are pregnant or that he dumped you already. because those are the things that likely would happen.
2007-03-26 17:02:33 · answer #7 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give us that bull **** not sex, put yourself in his wife position would you like someone doing that to you??
Have respect for yourself and your family or did they bring you up this way??
If you want to bitter for the rest of your life, go ahead and go do the married man, because girlfriend what goes around comes around.
Not even men go around talking what isn't there's.
You make women look bad, and am ashamed for you.
2007-03-26 17:05:35 · answer #8 · answered by none 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he asked his life with his wife is already over , but if you want to go i would call his wife and ask if she would mind ?
She may not and then you could have a better time guilt free !! And if she did mind he would be single pretty quickly and you would be in a better position ,
PS : you really should get him recorded because in case he denies it you can play the recording for his wife .
2007-03-26 17:00:51 · answer #9 · answered by dude d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he's gonna say you dont have to have sex, but what do you think he wants? he's married. Think about his wife. How would you feel if your husband was flirting with some younger woman, and then took her on vacation?? Stay away from him, he sounds like a jerk. If he wants to go on vaca, let him take his wife.
2007-03-26 16:59:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not go. He is married. Translation = unavailable. You are naive if you believe that "no sex" bit. Wait for the right partner to come along. Do not do something you will regret. The promise for fun is not a good trade off for integrity.
http://www.predator-awareness.com
2007-03-26 17:08:41 · answer #11 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋