Mormons, what scriptures would you suggest for a woman who has very recently divorced her non-Mormon husband?

Question

I would request that the scripture references be uplifting, inspiring, consoling...instead of condemnatory. Plz don't flame!

Answer 1

I would look to recent Women's conferences and articles in the Ensign. There are frequently items that raise the spirits for every type of need. God Bless.

Answer 2

Well, I think it is important that you or the person you are referring to realizes that just because she has gone through a divorce, one's self-worth is not dependent on marital status. I always thought the story of Abigail in 1 Samuel 25 was interesting, in that she had to put up with a husband whose values and temperament were not anything like hers until he died, and then she got to marry King David, who recognized and appreciated the gracious way she treated others - especially him and his entourage. Or you can look at the story of Esther, who also married a king who had been divorced and was able to do much more from her new position because she was willing to go where she needed to go. Anything in Psalms would be good, I'm sure. The important thing is to remain faithful and ask that whatever you (or the person you are referring to) and your ex are supposed to learn will be learned. One of my relatives likes to use an allegory - would you feel bad if you had to give up one valuable jewel if you knew that one even more valuable had been reserved for you, and it was better suited to you and was on the way - although it might take some patience to receive it. After divorce (or really any break-up) there is something like a grieving and repentance process, a letting-go of certain attitudes and expectations. The more you focus on Jesus Christ the easier it will be. I would be terribly impressed if you (or the person you are referring to) manage to keep on friendly terms with the ex-husband, as it may mean your friendship after the divorce may help him and his family members in the future come into the Gospel later on. If that is not possible, then you can rely on the Lord to send other people to help him understand the Gospel later on when it's his time. Have a happy day, and I send you a gummy bear stuck to other gummy bears, because it's wise to stick to those who are supportive of you.

Answer 3

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Answer 4

I can't come up with any scriptures off the top of my mind that are directly relivant, but whenever I am down I love to read D&C 121, especially around verse 7-9:
"...peace be unto thy soul; thine adversity and thine afflictions shall be but a small moment;
8 And then, if thou endure it well, God shall exalt thee on high; thou shalt triumph over all thy foes.
9 Thy friends do stand by thee, and they shall hail thee again with warm hearts and friendly hands."

Just in the last two weeks I have gone through a tough time as well, and I am looking at a tough year ahead of me, because I have made some sacrifices, so I can go on my mission. Through it all, I have felt the comfort of the Holy Ghost, and I know he will comfort you and guide you. I don't know what will happen in my life, but I know things will turn out right if I follow the Holy Ghost.

Answer 5

Every person has their own path. I would suggest praying and reading the scriptures for inspiration. No matter what situation you're going through, building your relationship to God is always important. If you have negative feelings towards your ex-husband, work on forgiving him. Holding on to hatred weighs you down and keeps you from moving on with your life. Good luck and best wishes!

Answer 6

Sorry I can't suggest any scriptures. Does it really matter that she divorced her non-mormon husband? SHE GOT DIVORCED! What a painful experience. Maybe a scripture of hope or of Jesus' love. I am sure she needs a friend, not a scripture.

Answer 7

The scriptures I would recommend are those found in The Sealed Portion of the Book of Mormon.

You may download it for free from the Internet (www.thesealedportion.com) because the truth costs nothing.

It is a thousand pages of the most astonishing information you'll ever read.

The truth shall set you free at last, bring you comfort and give you the tools to find LASTING happiness.

Answer 8

Those who have caused a divorce through their own poor choices can repent and be forgiven. Those whose marriages have failed because of what others have done can receive strength and comfort from the Lord, who promised: ”Come unto me, all ye that labour and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. . . . For my yoke is easy, and my burden light” (Matthew 11:28, 30).
-from LDS.org

I would also suggest reading this talk
http://www.lds.org/portal/site/LDSOrg/menuitem.b12f9d18fae655bb69095bd3e44916a0/?vgnextoid=2354fccf2b7db010VgnVCM1000004d82620aRCRD&locale=0&sourceId=9569a1615ac0c010VgnVCM1000004d82620a____&hideNav=1

or try searching for other talks on LDS.org and hopefully they will bring you (or whomever you are trying to help) comfort.

Answer 9

a couple of my favorite scriptures are: "Let not your heart be troubled; ye believe in God, ye also believe in me"

and from the D&C 121:7-10 especially v.9

During this difficult time, it is important to use the support system of the church. My mother was divorced, but she still had lots of friends within the church, to help her when she needed it.
Keep the faith!Go to the temple, if and when you can. It really helps.

Answer 10

I'm very sorry you're going through such a hard time...just remember you have a family in Christ no matter where you go on earth. You are loved by us and by your God Heavenly Father and by His Son Jesus Christ.

Doctrine and Covenants 123:17
Therefore, ... let us cheerfully do all things that lie in our power; and then may we stand still, with the utmost assurance, to see the salvation of God, and for His arm to be revealed.

Isa. 54:13 also see 3 Nephi 22:13
And all thy children shall be taught of the Lord; and great shall be the peace of thy children.

Alma 40:12
And then shall it come to pass, that the spirits of those who are righteous are received into a state of happiness, which is called paradise, a state of rest, a state of peace, where they shall rest from all their troubles and from all care, and sorrow.

Remember to forgive your ex husband and to pray for help and the strength to do it.