Well... i'm in a tiny bit of a pickle..
I dated this guy named T last summer until november... needless to say I feel in love with him and when he broke up with me I had a very hard time dealing with it. I moved on from him however and started dating someone else, named M, for about a month and i broke up with him just recently. Well T has stayed a friend of mine and now that we are both single again I am beginning to look at him again.
Well heres' the kicker.. I'm moving to another state in 5 weeks... part of me wants one more goodbye with T and just that little something for the next 5 weeks. The other part of me says to just roll with my life until I move. So what is it ladies? Do I have some fun and get back together with my ex for a little while ( which it may continiue when i move, i'm not too usre about that yet) or do I just leave my life alone and stay single??? I'm really confused, please help!
2007-03-26 16:30:12 · 12 answers · asked by Ashley A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Move on.
2007-03-26 16:33:59 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is, it doesn't sound like it would be last fling - you have feelings for this guy so you are just going to make it worse on yourself. Besides, do you really expect to have a relationship with him when you live 5 states away? Be realistic. You can't get over someone when you allow them back into your life. Time WILL heal all things - but NOT if you keep reopening old wounds...
2007-03-26 23:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by ScarlettBegonias 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just try going on a date with T, because you will never know if you guys are meant to be unless you try. If you move without trying, then I'm super sure that you will regret it. And if things don't work out between you and T, at least you are reassured that you are not missing a chance. And if you guys like each other, than just try a long distance relationship.
2007-03-26 23:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by jennifer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! Do not put your heart through that again! You have a whole new social circle you are headed to, get ready for it! Don't let someone hold you back to the old place, especially when you are sooo over him! You are a smart girl, get some goals, don't worry about the guys. Get focused on what is truly important!
2007-03-26 23:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by cunhvn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you move on~ T is your friend and you don't want to bruise that for 5 weeks! You know good and well you and T won't be able to stay together so don't play with fire. however if I were you I would hang out with him as much as possible. You can't control fate! :)
2007-03-26 23:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave your life alone and move on to your new location. You don't have to stay single there will be guys there as well. Let him put his dip stick somewhere else. Look forward to your new life.
2007-03-26 23:35:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He broke up with you ... let him suffer. My advise is to not "go back". It didn't work before so why try it again. Gear up for the move and excitement of a new place and new people.
2007-03-26 23:35:55 · answer #7 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the past and why be cruel and have fun just to leave him! Look into your heart and think of how you would feel if rolls where reversed.
2007-03-26 23:34:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay friends in my opinion. Let bye gones be bye gones. Move on. Why go back? Look ahead.
2007-03-26 23:40:46 · answer #9 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where do you get triangle??? You broke with with M, your now single. There's no triangle there. As long as T knows your leaving, and doesn't mind, go for it.
2007-03-26 23:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by sarlha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋