Should I give up trying to meet women because i am thin?

Question

I am 21, 6"2' and 150 pounds. I have worked out hard for years and eat alot but my body has not changed since I was a teenager and my weight never changes. My doctor said I am genetically proned to being tall and thin and there is very little I can do to change that. I was just wondering if anyone else thought I should give up trying to meet women, since none of them would want someone like me.

Answer 1

That would be ridiculous to give up on women because of how you think you look to women. I never gave up on dating men because my boobs are not huge...lol You are going too far thinking that NOONE would date "someone like you". When you are confident in yourself others see it and find that attractive. Different women like different things. Don't give up because of that. They need to accept you for you anyway--if it's JUST based on looks those relationships fail anyway. Good luck!!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 2

I'm 39 and 6' at 135 lbs... It's really hard not to be stereotyped just by looks.

Unfortunately??? I’m still single and don’t see any real relationship developing any time soon. What you have to do is keep trying. Someone may be out there… You just have to find her.

Keep the negativity out of your mind. Make sure to keep a positive attitude and when you see a girl you like be confident and don’t stammer or stutter when taking to her. Women pick up on weakness quickly.. If you sound weak that confirms your appearance to the stereotype. Build your confidence by saying, “YES, women DO like guys that are tall and thin.”

Answer 3

Hmm. Maybe the women don't want to be around you for some other reason. Never heard "too talll and thin" before. You should do an invenvtory and try to find out if it's something else.

Answer 4

Hi AJ, listen each men God had women for him don't give up if you are thin maybe you are smart don't focus too much on your look try to focus on your brain.
If you have good degree, very good job making a lot of money your chances you'll get the best girl out there.
let me know how thing work out for you.
If the girls in here don't want you. there's other bieatifful girls in other countries who are desperate for you.
good luck. I am one of them

Answer 5

That is your own imagination. Give reality a chance, try being assertive and ask some women you like out and you will be surprised how much they really like you, just the way you are.

Answer 6

No, thin is better than obese and unhealthy. You should be proud you are in the minority of Americans who are not obese or overweight. Its not like your anorexic. Dont worry you'll catch someone's eye. Not every woman wants an LL cool J.

Answer 7

Don't give up. Many women eventually fall for guys because of their personalities and not their physical appearance. You will find someone who truly loves you for you and not for the way you look. Just hang in there!

Answer 8

Don't give up on trying to find someone special, you just haven't met the right girl. There is probably a girl out there who is facing the same problem as you. Don't give up she's out there somewhere.

Answer 9

No, keep meeting women some females like tall thin guys.....but it should be about your personality. You'll find the one for you. Keep your head up and good luck.

Answer 10

do you eat alot, and stictly protein??make sure your eating ALOT of protein and carbs that really will bulk you up, and make sure your stictly doing weight training and NOT any cardio for now.. cardio will onyl make you thinner,, try going to a gym, it may take a year or so to notice a differnce but you will see one... also try going to a nutrition suppliment store and asking them some good bulking up pills to take NOT steroids tho! those will kill you and have horrible side effcts.. but no, alot girls dont look at stuff like that... just dont date to big a fat hick or she will break your tiny bones.