I know that we can get some alone time in tomorrow moring so i'm going to tell him that what i look for in a best friend and a boyfriend is basically the same thing so i usually just follow the cues that they are sending me to decide where things are going, but i've been getting some mixed signals from him so i was just trying to see where he wanted to go from here?
cause i really do like him
but i would be happy going either way
is this a good way to put it
and i would love suggestions or any other ideas
thanks!!!
2007-03-26 16:26:13 · 3 answers · asked by Nicole 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
really i wouldn't be hurring it but i'm trying to look out for both of us, if he doesn't like me that way then i'm deffinalty going to come to him for guy advice and tell if all about my crushes, but if i do that and he ends up liking me as more than friends me telling him about all these other guys could drive him away
so i'm not really asking for commitment
just a general feeling you know?
2007-03-26 16:38:00 · update #1
If he's your best friend does he know this? What are you pushing for? A friend lasts longer then a lover, that's a fact. Maybe he's not interested in you that way and that's why you are getting mixed signals. You might ruin a great friendship if you push too much, enjoy him like it is and maybe he'll feel that way for you, There isn't any hurry is there?
2007-03-26 16:33:43 · answer #1 · answered by ann m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you have to ask? That's tacky. Let the chips fall where they may.
2007-03-26 23:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, that's good. just be direct about it, us guys are easily confused.
2007-03-26 23:29:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋