my bf and i used to have romantic gentle sex.... till i told him i wanted crazy, dirty (you fill in the rest) sex.... now i want gentle sex.... we never have it? ever!!! its always rough and kinky.... i dont waNT it anymore.... what can i do?
2007-03-26 16:20:09 · 34 answers · asked by Dancing with love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl, jump on top of him, grab him by his hair, and scream to the top of your lungs, "WE'RE GOING TO HAVE PASSIONATE, GENTLE, ROMANTIC SEX TONIGHT MOTHERF*CKER!!!!!!!!!"
That way, he gets what he wants (the rough kinky part), and you can definitely get what you want (passionate, sensual sex). Both of y'all are satisfied. You might wanna set the scene up with some nice, soft music and candlelight....tell me how it goes!!!
2007-03-29 17:00:30 · answer #1 · answered by IB_08 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take control. Sex is a mutual agreement and neither of you have the right to abuse that. Tell him before you start that you want romantic sex tonight and if he disagrees or does otherwise tell him to stop disrespecting you or get off. Its as simple as that. Mix it up every once in awhile but if you dont want something you shouldnt be forced though it, especially when it comes to sex. If your not this vocal, tell him you want to try a new position and then go slowly. Its not as romantic as face to face sex, but at least it wont be rough and kinky. Good luck!
2007-03-26 16:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him about it. Tell him that while you enjoyed it at first, you've decided it's not something you want all the time and would like to go back to the gentle romantic sex you used to have.
2007-03-26 16:25:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want gentle sex just the way you told him you wanted to have rough sex. And maybe he will try and mix it up
2007-03-26 16:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by kool aid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him what you told him when you wanted crazy, kinky, rough sex. Replace kinky, crazy, and rough with gentle.
2007-03-26 16:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him that what you meant was that you wanted a change but that it doesn't specifically means that it always have to be that way....Tell him that you would like to vary....Because i think if you tell him that you only want to be gentle and then later on you want it rough then he is going to be confused...:)
2007-03-26 16:26:15 · answer #6 · answered by China19 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want it romantic gentle sex. It worked before and should again.
2007-03-26 16:23:33 · answer #7 · answered by solotrovo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you have to do is talk to him and tell him that you want gentle sex. It will be easy for you to tell him! You're the women, if he refuses just close your legs and dont open them untill he agrees to your terms.
2007-03-26 16:24:24 · answer #8 · answered by faintlysocold 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you want the gentle sex too. Once you're back in the groove, you'll want to mix it up sometimes.
2007-03-26 16:23:30 · answer #9 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume because you're asking, you're probably not big on talking about these things with him. So try telling him things you like (like hinting alot). Saying how much you love when he kisses you romantically, etc. He'll change if you compliment his ego and make him feel like a sex god when he treats you more gently.
2007-03-26 16:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by hollybear 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋