If there is a woman who I am interested in, she usually isn't interested me.
If a woman is interested in me, she usually isn't someone who I am interested in.
Why is life so freaking unfair this way!?!?!? I'm not looking for Ms Perfect, I just want someone compatible who I am interested in and she is interested in me!
2007-03-26 16:05:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I want mutual attraction, but that hardly ever happens.
2007-03-26 16:07:12 · update #1
You have heard the term. Im sure, "There is safety in numbers". Well, There is romantic success in numbers as well.
You are going to have to get out more, date more and flirt more. Flirt with every woman you are attracted to.
It's time to bring out the big guns. Flirt fearlessly.
In good time, you will find your mate.
Everyone does. Take heart in that.
2007-03-26 16:11:13 · answer #1 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I know you are frustrated, but You are not supposed to "look" for Ms. perfect. When the time is right you will find each other. Dont judge people before you get to know them. You said you werent interested in some girls but they like you...why dont you give them a chance? Maybe they might not look the way you want, but they could be the best person you have ever met. Maybe they come off as a rude person, but it could just be an act. The funny thing about humans is that we dont know what to look for.
All i can tell you is just to open yourself up, and you will find that girl. who knows....she could be standing right in front of you tomorrow and you might just walk on by...
2007-03-26 16:15:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are looking for the wrong woman? It sounds like at this point you are willing to settle for something less than what you really want. Just be patient.... the best things in life come when you least expect it.
Until then, focus on things other than women. Desperation is never an attractive quality anyway. :)
2007-03-26 16:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by afwife 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So true. It will eventually happen. After a long series of tumultuous relationships, I finally found someone where the attraction was not only mutual, she was also a friend. No power trips, no games, just good companionship. Just hang in there, it'll happen.
2007-03-26 16:10:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure your not one of those guys who tries to date girls way out of their league and ask themselves why they cant get a date? If not, maybe your just too choosy. No one is 100% compatible. Differences make a relationship more interesting.
2007-03-26 16:10:00 · answer #5 · answered by Kitty 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it sure feels this way at times. Don't worry you are looking too hard. Lay back relax and don't think about a woman and before you know it, she will be right in front of you!! It will happen and you wont even realise it. take care Heather
2007-03-26 16:13:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes some time to find someone to be compatible with. Have patience. Life is not a race.
2007-03-26 16:10:35 · answer #7 · answered by alain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As they say " if she is not yours, she is not yours". Nobody can explain this but yes it happens.Be cool and hang in there as your time may not be right yet. So wait a little longer.
2007-03-26 16:10:05 · answer #8 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That tends to be the way that life is. Just wait. You will find somone who likes you (and you like her) eventually.
2007-03-26 16:08:42 · answer #9 · answered by Nameless 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋